Help me get my head around this...

[Craftypig]

Four months ago my partner found out she was pregnant, it was a shock at first, but personally I was over the moon, she was doing all the usual baby shopping stuff with her mum we would go through baby names etc. Then 5 mins before we left home for the anatomy scan (20weeks) she told me she didn't want the baby. I was gutted, I begged and pleaded with her to have the baby but to no avail. Last Monday she terminated the baby's life, on Tuesday she went back to the clinic to go through labour to "evacuate" her womb. Whilst all this was going on she decided that she wasn't in love with me so she ended the relationship. I have since found out that she has been getting friendly with someone she met on the internet who lives in Holland. Unfortunately due to her circumstances she cant immediately move out of the house but we sleep in different bedrooms. This morning we had sex twice then she switches on her phone and starts txting loverboy, I cant understand what is going on, my whole world has collapsed around my ears...

[beso]

Suggest you post your question here:

http://blogs.news.com.au/bossy/

She is very good and some of the other regular contributors have interesting perspectives.