Boyfriend Saying Random Things

[Nay37]

Last night my bf said to me all girls like rough sex. Knowing that I am the only one his been with I asked how do you know that and he wouldn't reply. Does this mean he has been cheating or something else?

[EcclesCake]

It means he is your typical boastful boy who thinks he knows everything.

He doesn't and he is wrong.

[EcclesCake]

And you might want to think if he is really boyfriend material.

[baza]

perhaps he has been speaking to his mates.

[cupid04]

Your boyfriend sounds like a plonker. Has he done a survey? How does he know?

[Khandro]

Not necessarily, it just means he's a prat, leave him pronto.

[Mamyalynne]

Maybe in a roundabout way he was asking if you liked........

[cupid04]

OOH^

[aelmpvw]

think about it for a brief moment ... why do you think he says all girls like rough sex?

[baza]

sounds like a bit of a ..... fit your own words in, dump him .

[Baby_Sham]

Just sounds like he's been watching too much porn.

[Svejk]

Maybe that american girl in Prague liked it.
I must say you've found yourself a smashing bloke there, you lucky girl. ;)

[DaisyNonna]

Get rid before he tries it.

[Baby_Sham]

Lol Svejk. Judging by the posters previous posts, I think you'e right!
Jeez, and I thought I had a wrong'un...

[Old_Geezer]

It means he wants you to agree to rough sex.
You were a kid once, does the phrase, "All the other mums/dads let their kids do it", sound familiar ?

[EcclesCake]

Oh......I had assumed this was a teenage post.

So he didn't stray and you really believe he was a 26 year old virgin when you met?

In your shoes I would give serious consideration to the future of the relationship.....again......

[China Doll]

How old are you and how old is your boyfriend? Given your previous postings it seems like you're both adults - that being the case, it is possible that your boyfriend has had sex with people before you who liked rough sex. Why are you so obsessed with the cheating?!

[pixie373]

He's sounding you out. Give him your honest answer. I very much doubt this is his way of admitting to cheating.

[joko]

well lots of girls do, but not all obviously.
and it depends what you mean by rough - i mean there's levels - such as just very very energetic, then bit of hair pulling, spanking and scratching, to actual pain, like slapping - then extremes like s&m and simulated rape etc

he has probably been watching too much porn or talking to an idiot mate.

i had a boyfriend a bit like this - never had a girl before and had all sorts of unrealistic ideas about how they were - i soon taught him the truth

are you young?

if you are teens i'd say he just needs to learn the truth and not listen to mates and films

[tamborine]

he needs/wants a bf not a gf

[hc4361]

You are in your mid 30s and been with your boyfriend for 4 years but it doesn't seem that you trust him. Your relationship does't sound very stable at all and he does sound like an immature idiot.

I hope you've postponed any idea for him to adopt your child.