Back in the saddle...

[Xenon101]

After a long term relationship I took a couple of years out. Just knocking around with mates and not getting involved. This was done on purpose. Now I've met a girl who I like and it's probably right for me to start again.. It sounds a bit sissy, but I'm worried about my year out affecting my physical performance. How should I approach it? Never had problems before, but I'm 34 years old and she will probably expect everything to be spot on. Any thoughts??

[chicklin]

I wouldn't think she'll have any particular expectations so stop worrying. You may have dropped out for a while but you won't have forgotten! Just play it by ear and enjoy the whole relationship.

[ummmm1]

I wouldn't say it would make much of a difference. My last boyfriend had been single for two years before me. And he didn't have a problem. The only thing is if you worry about it it can have certain effects on your little man...

[chicklin]

Ummmm....How do you know it's little? You may be doing him a grave diservice?!?

[delph924]

you will be fine xenon101 as long as you dont worry about how you will perform its just like riding a bike just sit back and enjoy the ride and takes things as they come ; )

[ummmm1]

Hey chicklin......nobody listens to me anyway

[chicklin]

Ummmm - I do! :o)

[ummmm1]

Do you chicklin......wicked

Xenon101.....Can you let us know how you got on please??

[Xenon101]

Ha Ha. Ta for the "little man" comment. This isn't a concern thankyou! Was more worried about how physically you get used to a long term partner and know how to please each other. Just hadn't made those early moves for a while!! Will let you know how I get on..
Ta for everyones words..