my wife's mate broke us up

[tonythebiker]

1 of my wife's mates told her that i ask another girl out for a meal but i never, she said this to her as i had a go at her for getting her boobs out in public now my wife left me 3 days ago believing her mate over me i told my wife i'm willing to have a lie detector done as i have never cheated on her but she said she still believes her mate and don't want to come back to me what can i do as i love her so much and afraid that now we are not together she might find someone elseanyone know how to get her back

[stokeace]

your mrs cant think much of you if she believes a vindictive woman like her friend appears to be.id get the 2 of them together and ask her point blank why she has told lies about you to your wife if its because you told her off for getting her t**s out then she ought to grow up and so should your wife for believing her.

[maggiemcgill]

Hi Tony, sorry to hear about your situation, but it sounds to me like your wife wanted to believe this & is using it as perfect excuse for some other underlying problem. What that may be I obviously don't know. Has this "friend" caused trouble in the past or the lonely/jealous type & has done this so she can have your wife all to herself?

You need to talk to your wife alone with no other parties present, in a neutral place and ask her what she wants out of your relationship, her life and most importantly where her feelings are at and when all this truly began, because it seems to me, as said, she's just used her mate as a scape goat. Also this goes without saying but when she talks 'listen' (as a women myself, you rant & rave, I go on the defensive) & try not to bring the 'boobs out episode' any more than necessary, also try not to slag her mate off as this will just be used as ammunition. I really hope this ends in the way you want as it seems like you love her a lot.

[maggiemcgill]

Sorry Tony, I should have added that, obviously I do not know your wife or her friend. I'm just going off my previous experiences, myself or my friends & this is just my opinion. Thanxs, Chin Up!

[tonythebiker]

hi maggie seems as if you know her mate lol. yes she is lonely she don't have a partner and have not done for a long time. and the bit you said about she might want her all for herself could be very true as she is bisexual and as far as i know my wife is not. i know where my wife is she is at another friends house in brighton and i'm in kent i can't phone her as she has changed her number i have left emails on her friends computer but she won't reply. thanks for your reply take care
colin

[tonythebiker]

my mate was typing out as i was telling him what to white and the mad man put his name at the end as you can see my spelling is not that good thats why he did it lol
tony

[redhead23]

sounds too me like you are too imature to be married , ditch the bitch

[yummymum]

red...thats not very nice lol

[maggiemcgill]

Hi tony, I suggest you & colin go out around kent, have tons of beer & just in enjoy the freedom for a while :-)

[Markandshez]

she's getting it eslewhere - move on

[earsugar]

get back in there richard gere stylee, tell her mate to get f*c*ed and not to mess again. Be loud and agressive - do not hit or gesture violence but be in her face

Stand up, make a real real noise about it, fight a bit, let her know that her mate is stirring. If that doesnt work then f*ck her, if she can leave you over this she aint worth it.

[lizzydrippin]

Are you sure you're old enough to be married? You sound about 12