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shuugs | 12:32 Mon 13th Aug 2007 | Body & Soul
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I went to my mums sisters house this weekend and I have always fancied my mums nephew, my cousin, he is really fit and he's about 26. when I went round we have always flirted but I was feeling a bit low as the bloke I am in love with doesn't seem to want to know, so I flirted extra hard with my cousin, he kissed me and then we had sex, it was good and I really fancy him and I think I love him but I don't know if this is wrong or not, is it wrong for cousins to be in love? are cousins really family? TIA xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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As you can see my opinion is I myself would never have any relationship with my cousin as we share same blood as my nan to me theres something really wrong with that and I think its disgusting, hope you used protection
Hmmm, disgusting...
wrong!!!!! wrong!!!!! wrong!!!!! 1990000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000% wrong
*in my opinion*
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im on the pill. and i dont see how it is discgusting?!?! he's really nice and is so friendly to me
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why so wrong?????????????????????????????????????????????
as I said its wrong to me as we both have same nan. It isnt illegal but I would never go there, there has got to be something wrong in having same blood
Oh you are becoming very predictable shuugs. I suppose this all these trite questions is one way to get your kicks, but it is quite tedious now.

Its an illness you know.
while the "disgusting" argument is quite strong, and yourself and this man are blood relatives - have you been brought up quite closely? Is there a strong family connection there, or is he more like a mate?

Personally i wouldn't bed my cousin, but i know its not unheard of. Reading your post, my main concern isn't actually that he's related to you, but that you're in a vulnerable position right now, and maybe jumping into bed with a man - any man - might not be such a good idea.
does he love you back? what will your mum and his mum think? you'd have to be 110% sure it's true love on both sides and not just rebound sex before you potentially go and cause a huge family rift.

Good Luck!
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i don�t know what will happen now he has a girlfriend but she is not very nice to him and she is always having a go at him
It is estimated that at least 55% of British Pakistanis are married to first cousins and the tradition is also common among some other South Asian communities and in some Middle Eastern countries. It was also very common in Victorian England, so it is not as taboo as you might like to believe.

It is obviously personal preference and mutual intent as there is an argument that such unions are seen as strong, building as they do on already tight family networks and you have the same family history. Perhaps he would like 2 wives, this is therefore acceptable in certain faiths and countries, but not in the UK whiffey, so you would have to elope.
Hmmm, i think you should ask your parents if he can sleep at your house with you for a weekend...
are you suprised she is if he keeps sleeping with other people. Did you not think how this other girl would feel?
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i dont care how she feels, she should have been nicer to him then he wouldnt have strayed. shes a dog anyway
I hope you used protection
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i am on the pill, no need for any other
I'm sure she could say the same about you
If you get married I feel sorry for the Ushers.

"Are you related to the Bride or Groom madam?"

"Both"

"Oh dear, best sit in the aisle"
maybe you could get your sister in on the act to really make his day.

If this even remotely genuine then shagging your cousin to get at the bloke you are in love with doesn't equate to cousins being in love making it all the more gross.

You need some moral guidance.
So his wife is a dog, incest and beastiality in the family? No wonder your questions seem deranged.
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its me he wants, i bet he will leave her, i have tried to call him all day but he is busy

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