Hi lainie, I made contact exactly the same way as you through friends reunited, good thing bad thing, I am not sure, I also want to meet, and we keep saying we will meet, but something is holding me back, we were never engaged but we met very young and split up when I was about 18, so very young but first love is very special and as they say, "The first cut is the deepest" and that is so true, if you do meet it may lead to happiness it may lead to heartbreak, but either way somebody is going to end up hurting inside aren't they, what you say may well be true, but we also do look back with rose tinted glasses don't we, the grasss was greener, the summers were better, we were young, we had no worries, was it really that good, or are the memories better than the reality, i don't know the answer, you don't say if you have mentioned to him about meeting, have you ? and if you have what did he say? I can't advise you as to what to do, just understand how you feel, all I can say is what i did before, think more than once about meeting, take care and good luck with your future happiness, Ray xx