If you knew that your girlfriend (who is pregnant with your child) had lied about a previous relationship with someone who she still had regular contact with, would you say anything?
Also, the previous relationship was an affair and was only ended because he wouldn't leave his girlfriend.
I know that if I say anything then it will probably destroy us and I wouldn't do that to my child. I strongly believe that both parents should be around.
If someone keeps texting u and being a nuisance, you tell them to f*** off, you don't text back. Why would she be getting upset when you mention it to her?
4getmenot.
the bits about 'discovered' and 'heard' are because she has never told me herself.
I found out about the s*x at work when an email between the two of them about it got stuck in the ether and hit the failed delivery items folder that I look after as a member of the IT staff.
If I hadn't found it then i would never have known.