flirting

[nannon]

Reading the post below made me think....I cant flirt!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just dont know how! I meet guys and they give me compliments and buy me a drink if we're out etc but i think i get quite defensive and act like i'm not interested when actually i am!!!!!!!! I just mutter 'thanks' or something an look away. And i cant seem to give compliments to people either!
I am fairly underconfident when it comes to men and do get a bit shy but i just dont get the whole concept of flirting - i always feel a bit silly!!!!!

[4getmenot]

i dont over flirt as in put it on a plate for them. I guess theres different types of flirting, jokey flirting like I do one here, desperate flirting which I wouldnt do or just being straight to the point if I like someone which has always worked :-) being shy can be quite good flirting too you know

[nannon]

haha - thanks!

[nannon]

4get - i think i worry about going to OTT and looking like an idiot so instead i just dont say anything and become quite stand-offish i think!!!!!!!!

[4getmenot]

you shouldnt worry you're obviously just being yourself and thats the way to be xx

[andrea81]

To be honest, if it's not in your personality to flirt then I would be careful as you may come accross as fake or sarcastic.

What I mean is, I sometimes come across as sarcastic when I get a compliment and my husband who met me for the first time thought I was a stuck up cow. But it was probably because I was trying to act all sexy and flirty!

If you are youself then the person flirting with you will see that and like you for who you are. I'm sure you have a fab personality! ; - )

[Pippa68]

You probably flirt very well ~ you just don't realise it!

[nannon]

Thank You!!!!!!!!
Yes maybe i shouldn;t try to put ot oj - nothing worse than when you see a girl being overly flirty!!!

x

[4getmenot]

spose it depends on person some people like over flirting some dont, some do it some dont. I've always liked shy men myself. and I find most louder men prefer shy girls