I have done a terrible terrible thing

[Skreecheeboy]

I have just split up with my girlfriend by email and I am feeling pretty bad about it. What is the worst way you have ever dumped somebody?

[legend758duo]

Skreech pretty low mate.Never dump im too nice.Always dumped its easier.


HTH?

[~max~]

That IS bad. Why couldnt you do it in person???

[shiznit]

Moved to London and not tell her, felt really bad about it though, have since apologised but we dont talk anymore surprisingly enough lol

[Skreecheeboy]

What does HTH mean? So nice that they always dump you legend? That doesn't make sense or do you wait till you want to dump them and start acting really bad until they drop you? I'm feeling a bit relieved that I've finished it but I still feel quite bad about the way i've done it and I hope she isn't too mad at me. I'd only been seeing her for 7 weeks and she lives in Argyle while I'm in Edinburgh so it's not like it's going to be strange not seeing her every day or anything but it's still a bit weird knowing that she doesn't know yet. I feel terrible actually.

[~max~]

Well then, maybe not in person, but a phone call would be nice!
I was dumped by TEXT once!!! I'm not one to bear grudges, but let's say he got a reputation with his flatmates after receiving so much gay porn flyers at home....

Mwahahahha!

[jno]

yeah, well I think you should feel bad. Honestly, you need to be able to handle relationships face-to-face. If someday you marry and have an argument, you can't be off in the next room firing emails at your wife, you have to do things in person, not run away and hide from emotions. It may be this whole internet has made us more accustomed to doing things remotely, but real people aren't just email addresses. You should have told her in person, however painful it was for both of you; she was entitled to that.

[Skreecheeboy]

I've got tonnes of that already max! lol! I was thinking of doing it by text this afternoon but I waited till I got home as I was working late. A phone call would have been better but I would probably have started crying and I don't like crying in front of people and I cry quite easily I'm afraid.

[Preggie_Sam]

oh my god lol thats naughty!!

why would you do that ?? lol

[Skreecheeboy]

You're probably right jno but I'm hoping that because we were mates before she'll be able to forgive me. I've really not thought this through at all. She's going to absolutely hate me now.

[pastafreak]

OH!! Skreechee...and I thought you were one of the nice guys on here !! Shame!......yes-a phone call would have been MUCH better. Is it too late to call now???...get it over and done in a more civilised manner? AND explain your reasons.....terrible to be dumped and maybe not know why. PS-still love ya-lol

[Skreecheeboy]

Hi sam, I can't see us lasting.

[Skreecheeboy]

She'll be in her bed probably pasta. My mate's just signed on msn so I'm gonnna break the news to him. thanks for all your replies, it's good to know that I had adequate reason for feelign like I've been a cnut, at least my conscience knows that I've done wrong.

[Doc Spock]

Many years a girlfriend said " I am pregnant and if you don't marry me I shall kill myself"






I said " Not only are you a good fcuk, you are a good sport."

[Preggie_Sam]

lol your right i dont see how we can!! you dumped a girl though e-mail?

text is bad enough - but e-mail

at least text you have had to pay to send it - but e-mail is free lol tut tut

[Preggie_Sam]

doc are you following me?? GO AWAY you old fool

[~max~]

Yep, she's going to hate your guts...sorry!

[unrulyjulie]

awww skreechee, i have to echo the others here but ya know i think youre great anyway!;-)

give the girl a phone call tomorrow and explain how sorry you are for being a cowerd but you just didnt know how to tell her. I hope she forgives you but theres not a lot more you can do if she doesnt!live and learn!!! treat as you wish to be treated in future.

[China Doll]

What the **** were you thinking? You don't like crying so you thought you'd ****** around with her emotions instead. You wimped out, plain and simple. I'm fond of your pixels you know that, but you've screwed up on this one.

If I was you I'd wake her up now or early tomorrow morning. What you've done is cowadly and unfair. How wothless do you think she's going to feel tomorrow when she opens that and realises that you didn't even have the bottle to call her? Would I forgive you? Would I bollox mate.

Now I've got the lecture over with. You've done a sh1tty thing but as far as I can tell you're not actually a sh1t. Do what you can to put this right and don't beat yourself up over it too much. We all screw up sometimes. Even me ;0)

[Skreecheeboy]

I can't believe you ever screw up Chinadoll but I think I'm going to follow your advise and phone her in the morning before my work if I can get up in time. Getting up isn't my strong point and I don't mean in the sense you all are probably thinking. BTW, I would have loved it if she'd dumped me by email, at least I wouldn't have had to do it to her! Stars for the doc!