In relationship with married man!!!!!!!!

[lerler]

Hi all,need some advice.I've been with him for three years now.He's still with wife,she kind of like has a clue,but he just keeps fobbing her off.He tells me he needs to say because of his debts etc,we have a great time and love each other alot.We've tried the not seeing each other for a couple of mths,but where like a boomerang...we just keep getting together.What should one do...?

[Octavius]

Well, what do you want to happen?

[lerler]

Well we both want to be together but the complications of divorce and so on

[Dr-Legend]

Well if you feel the need to ask

then you already know the answer

[B00]

How stupid are you? LOL

If he wanted to be with you, he would be by now. He doesnt, accept it. He's having his cake and eating it.

One should walk away whilst you still have a smidgen of pride left and leave him to his wife and probable children.

[cazzz1975]

After 3 years of still being with his wife I would imagine he will never leave her debts or no debts.

I would advise you to put an end to it and try and find a man who wants to be with you and not his wife

[Octavius]

OK, so he won't leave his wife, so you can't be together? If you can't be together without the wife, what do you want to happen?

[Dr-Legend]

The answer is obvious
as is the point of this post.

Attention is all thats desired .

[DrFilth]

very true DrLegend

[cazzz1975]

you know DrFilfth..there is something very familiar about you....

[DrFilth]

i looked in a mirror and said those exact same words

[radiogaga]

me and my brothers have just recently been told my our mother our dad has had an affair.
we are devastated.

[Octavius]

In attempting to ascertain the fullest of responses a wise man would seek to find all the facts. They seem somewhat lacking in this Q. or at least as slow in arriving somewhere as the development of this relationship.

[cazzz1975]

Im hoping lerler posts too oct.

sorry to hear that radio, that must be devastating

[Dr-Legend]

The question posed is obviously weighed to give certain responses from other users.The fact that some users give the desired responses only feeds the neeed of the poster to continue this.The post is the needle but the responses oh so shocked are the heroin to inject into the poster to achieve their high their goal their bit of fun.

Though some might calll me cynical , others might calll me logical.
Then again?

[Octavius]

Then again.....we may not call upon you at all.

lerler, is there really any need to do anything? You could just stop.

[B00]

Octavius is still my hero ;-)

[Octavius]

B00, darling, are you holding out for one?

[radiogaga]

here, here i hope none of you two are married?