Is this ok for me to be a bit miffed if a girl straddles my b/f all eve at a party? see details..?

[queenkerosin]

we was at a party and we were taking amusing pictures etc,i got this girl to sit on my b/f lap to take a pic while he pretended to nussel her chest, the pic was amusing, everyone was messing around doing amusing pics. but she proceeded to straddle him the rest of the evening doing god knows what. personally i dont think that this is appropriate behaviour, and as he didnt seem to remove her at all during the eve, i feel a bit miffed.. and really would like an apology or for him to at least realise this is not appropriate, he wont and says i told her to sit there (yes i did, but just for the time the amsuing pics were being taken, i didnt spend the rest of the eve with my foot on a girls shoulder)

your thoughts please?

[redcrx]

lol, you ask her to sit across his lap for amusing pics and then get uppity when she stays there?

[4getmenot]

sorry your fault for playing games in first place.

[redcrx]

its a bit childish isnt it? perhaps your fella was not impressed at you making a girl sit on his lap and thought he'd wind you up, why should he apologise?

[Octavius]

Perhaps you should have said, sit there for a pic, then gerroff!

Presumably during the evening you let it be known that you were unhappy with the situation, so I am surprised it went on all evening. Unless you didn�t of course and did the silent treatment.

I would suggest you don't suggest it next time.

[unhappychick]

You got your bloke to pretend he was nusseling some womans chest whilst you were taking pics! im sorry but I find that a bit odd, cos I certainly wouldnt be taking pictures of my bloke like that...you brought it on yourself!

[jno]

assuming he consented to her sitting there, it would still have been nice if he's said 'OK, that's enough' and just stood up. It's not the girl's fault, she just had to do what she'd paid to do. But no, your bf shouldn't have let her stay, whether the original invitation was yours or not.

[4getmenot]

Paid??

[redcrx]

lol jno could well be right :)

[Octavius]

Yes indeed, I am still pondering about her foot on another girls shoulder. It bemusess me and throws up some rather titilating imagery.