personal bedroom question!

[razmataz]

My boyfriend always wants to perform oral sex on me, and he says he can do so happily for hours. However, I don't understand why he enjoys doing it so much. I don't always want it to continue for so long. LOL. Surely he gets tired and wants to take a break. Does anyone know why some men are so into this ? Thanks

[chas2008]

no easy answer, from my point of view its just part of lovemaking and very special and soooooooo sexy.

[jno]

even so, you might suggest to him that you've had enough for now and would he kindly pay attention to some other operation. Wise lovers do their best to respond to each other's desires as well as their own.

[ChuckFickens]

razmataz I suspect your going to get a few people offering to take you boyfriend off you hands now.

[Lakitu]

starts the queue

[razmataz]

It does seem like a very special actwhich is what confuses me-because we have not really been together for very long. I just don't understand what he gets from it - are men really that generous? Maybe he wants the favour returned!

[B00]

i'm with jno- tell your boyfriend he'd be far more productive doing other things....like ironing or hoovering the floor ;-)

[Lakitu]

He does

[razmataz]

I am not really complaing- it is just I wondered why he apparently can do it endlessly ,as well as watch me as he does it! I don't think I would have the energy to return the favour!

[jno]

that might well be the case, raz. Generally with oral it is better to receive than to give... it can get a bit tiresome doing it after the first hour. So yes, you might consider returning the favour; it may well remind him to give his own mouth a rest.

lol B00, and he could lick the dishes clean

[Lakitu]

Why don't you just ask him? I don't know, but maybe every man has a different answer to your question.

Mind you, my male friend was ogling the breasts of a woman walking by a few weeks ago, I asked him just what exactly is it that men find so attractive about breasts since every other person has them, his answer was "they're just there!"

Not very insightful, but good luck to you!

[razmataz]

Lol jno. I did ask him once. But his response was similar to that of your male friend. He said ' I don't know why I just love it, I could do it all day!' Which implies he's a giver. LOL. I know he used to watch porn. Maybe that has something to do with it -ha ha!

[razmataz]

I meant Lakitu, not jno -sorry!

[chas2008]

just lay back and enjoy .........

[razmataz]

I will enjoy it, lol. We are incredibly attracted to one another and it's very passionate.

chas I assume from your first post that you are female?

[chas2008]

er no, a geezer.....

[razmataz]

I wasn't sure-sorry!

Well why do you like it so?

[razmataz]

I don't know-the sceptic inside me suggests that they want something out of it !

[taliesin238]

I dont get it either and ive had boyfriends in the past who insist but i dont know why. Do they really get this much satisfaction from doing this for so long?

[chas2008]

No problem, probably not use to a bloke using the phrase 'lovemaking;

its nice to give pleasure and enjoy it while doing so, taste ,smell. ...just such an intimate thing....