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I'v only been with my boyfriend a couple months and we have fallen in love, but there is one issue hanging over us, when we very first got together back in the summer, I went out drinking with my best mate and her (male) cousin who was visiting, me and the cousin decided to go for a late night drunken swim in the sea. It was totally innocent, nothing happened, i didn't think anything of it at the time. My boyfriend obviously found out and went mad (despite the fact that we'd only been a couple for 3 days and I invited him out that night and he refused). Ever since then he has been accuasing me of cheating on him. He is so obsessed with me and this other guy, he's adament that something happened. I can see his point of view, it does look a bit suss, I admit that, but i can honestly put my hand on my heart and say that nothing happened. All we do is argue over it and i don't think can cope anymore. I love him so much, I have tried to break it off and he begs me not too and promises he won't accuse me again, but then he does, and I stupidly put up with it. We had another massive row about it last night, going on til 5am, now I don't know where I stand anymore and I'm in peices.
Can someone offer me some advise please on how to prove to him that I really do love him and would never cheat on him. I've even agreed to doing a lie detector test if that what it takes.
Can someone offer me some advise please on how to prove to him that I really do love him and would never cheat on him. I've even agreed to doing a lie detector test if that what it takes.
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I told him, but he'd already seen a comment id put on facebook just saying 'just got out the sea' .
But Squad, Iv never cheated before and i havn't cheated now. In my eyes, if it wasn't this issue, then it would be something else, I always feel like I'm not good enough for him.
On top of this i might add...he has an ex f**k buddy, who tried to also break us up, but he still chats to her on msn 'as friends' even tho she's always asking him to meet up for sex. In his eyes, that's ok tho. I'm sick of this one rule for him and another for me.
But Squad, Iv never cheated before and i havn't cheated now. In my eyes, if it wasn't this issue, then it would be something else, I always feel like I'm not good enough for him.
On top of this i might add...he has an ex f**k buddy, who tried to also break us up, but he still chats to her on msn 'as friends' even tho she's always asking him to meet up for sex. In his eyes, that's ok tho. I'm sick of this one rule for him and another for me.
DEN...good morning my love.........they have been together for 3months not 3 days.
She is a woman and is "in love " with him....he is her "alpha male" and will take all kinds of cr@p to keep him.
That's what procreation is all about. Why do woman go for "bastards?), they do and on a regular basis. Once she is pregnant by hi, then she will look for Mr.Nice, although boring as hell, will support the family faithfully.
She is a woman and is "in love " with him....he is her "alpha male" and will take all kinds of cr@p to keep him.
That's what procreation is all about. Why do woman go for "bastards?), they do and on a regular basis. Once she is pregnant by hi, then she will look for Mr.Nice, although boring as hell, will support the family faithfully.
Tell him to jog on and stop being such a door mat, it'll hurt but you'll get over it and if this is the only thing that hurts you all your life then you'll have got off lightly.
If you're argueing all the time it's hardly much of a relationship... Unless you happen to be one of those women who thrive on drama in which case, stick with it, sounds like it's a winner.
Good grief. Lie detector... Honestly.. Bloody tv shows and modern romance... Makes you want to stay single forever.
If you're argueing all the time it's hardly much of a relationship... Unless you happen to be one of those women who thrive on drama in which case, stick with it, sounds like it's a winner.
Good grief. Lie detector... Honestly.. Bloody tv shows and modern romance... Makes you want to stay single forever.
We had been 'seeing eachother' for about 6 weeks. He couldn't decide what he wanted and kept me hanging on all that time, he would even get funny with me then, but its too long a story to go into. then eventually we got together 'properly' and this happened a few days later.
I'm guessing we were just doomed from the start.
I'm guessing we were just doomed from the start.
