what do u think ummmm

[sacha.86]

i appreciated ur feedback last time

[ummmm]

Personally I think making him give you the gory details will just torture you. The only details you really need is why he did it. Then you can establish whether it's likely to happen again. If it's not likely to happen again then concentrate on fixing the problem that made him do it in the first place.

What is the age difference?

[sacha.86]

its not so much the gory details, i think it went futher thatwhat hes telling me i no he's hiding sumthing. Hes 20 n im 24 in a few months

[sacha.86]

he said he did it because he wanted to prove he could get some1 else. He said that ive told him he will never get any 1else. But what i said was hed find it very hard to replace me and i think hes took that as me meaning looks wise. He also said its because he is young and hes never really had a proper sexual relationship with any 1 b4 me and he finds it hard (young lad bravardo thing). So saying that he probabaly wud do it again unless he grows up and gets over it. I told him to do the right thing yesterday so hes walked out, think its the best for all of us and i dont feel like i care any more. He turns me cold and thats definatly not what i want cheers ummmm

[ummmm]

It sounds like he's just not ready to settle down. You're 24....your best years are yet to come in my opinion. Having a child does not mean you won't meet Mr Write.

Best of luck to you but do what your gut instinct tells you....

I wouldn't and didn't forgive....now I have Mr perfect. Except the farting......

[snags]

Do to him what ummmm is doing to Brian...

[ummmm]

lol....

[sacha.86]

lol thanks both of u. Ive always said to him the only way i can ever hurt him back is to leave him for good. Now its his time to hurt. He wont realise what hes lost until he gets in2 his next relationship and sees what life is really like. And i will find comfort in the fact that his next girlfriend will b a *** which i no for 100% that she will b :)

[ummmm]

Have you decided to leave him then?

[sacha.86]

no hes left us but i no for a fact he will b back as soon as reality kicks in but im ready to not let him back. Can u fall out of love over night bcoz ive woke up not bothered 4 the 1st time ever some thing feels like its just switched off