What would you choose?

[poodicat]

Reading a story about a woman who had a affair and fell pregnant, her husband who she says she realised she loved issued a ultimatum,either she terminated the baby or keep the marriage,i am sorry the baby didnt to anything wrong why didnt she have the baby and get it adopted,i am sorry i think he is hurt i can understand that but why did he put her under so much pressure?

[poodicat]

Its good to hear a mans prospective

[cazzz1975]

he is putting her under pressure because he feels betrayed and stupid, personally if I was him I would dump her.

[andy-hughes]

I don't think 'love' and 'ultimatum' can co-exist in a relationship.

If the husband cannot raise 'another man's child', then he does not love his wife enough to stay with her. Any man can father a child, but a woman's baby is always her own.

It would be serioulsy tough, but I'd stay with her and raise the child with her.

No, make that VERY tough, but still possible if you love each other enough.