Has he lost interest in me?

[Nay35]

My Boyfriend has been really off recently, he comes home from work and goes upstairs to change then sits in front of the tv until dinner then goes upstairs to watch tv and leaves me downstairs on my own. He bearly shows me any affection and doesn't talk to me much. When I go up to bed he is asleep or pretends to be. Has he lost interest in me or am I paranoid?

[sara3]

have you sorted out any of the problems from your previous questions?

[4getmenot]

non of us can answer that, my bloke is upstairs now watching tv but only coz we have different tastes in programmes. You need to talk to him.

[cazzz1975]

judging by your previous I would say the relationship has run its course

[ummmm]

Have you asked him?

[snags]

Has he 'lost interest' generally or just with regards to you? Maybe he is depressed...

[haysi06]

^^ what he said :P

[TTG]

"He bearly shows me any affection and doesn't talk to me much." Talk to him and find out why. If it carries on, best to get out.

[berniecuddles]

agree with snags "depression"

[Brinjal]

Old married couple syndrom. Try and get it back on track or get out. Sometimes with time we find we have little in common and drift apart. Find someone who you have things in common with.

[joeluke]

He's probably having an affair

[Sqad]

I disagree with joeluke.........he is DEFINITELY having an affair.

[sara3]

but I thought you'd said affairs keep the other relationship alive...

seems like people get hurt, to me.