Single, upset and wanting advice . . .

[dollypins]

Further to my previous post, I have now finished with my boyfriend. I told him that I needed space and wanted to spend more time with friends/going out. However, his father keeps texting me, wanting to meet up. I know I shouldn't but I really want to. I have never felt so turned on as the day he kissed me and I know I want to do more than that. Yes, I know he's a married man etc. So far, I've declined which is making him text me even more.
I am still upset about finishing with my bf but I think it was for the best. Just feeling confused at the moment. Any advice would be good. I can't speak to anyone about this. Thank you

[carmalee]

is the father still married, a widower or divorced?

[ummmm]

Don't do it....you'll regret in the end.

[dollypins]

Also, I received lots of nasty replies to my last question so if you could try and be sensitive please. It's not a nice situation to be in and I can't turn my feeling off. Thanks

[dollypins]

He's still married. He is my now ex's father.

[snags]

carmelee:

''I know he's a married man''

[redcrx]

hes a married man, not to mention the father of the guy you have just left.

Give yourself time to be single a while, work out what you want.

tell the father to leave you alone.

[237SJ]

What an unsavoury position to be in. I`d avoid like the plague if I was you.

[ummmm]

If a married man has an affair...he is to blame. But if he has an affair with someone that close to home I think you'd be equally to blame. If it was husband I would kick sh!t out of the pair of you.

[redcrx]

plus, from your earlier posts, you are only 17 and still live with your parents. That man should know better!

[cazzz1975]

reds advice is bang on the money

[carmalee]

if he's a married man have a little respect for his wife and yourself and leave well enough alone. think about how you'd feel if your husband/boyfriend whatever was texting someone young enough to be their daughter - then think what sort of sleazeball he is and do you really want to be involved with him. if the answer is yes, go ahead but you ain't doing yourself or your reputation any good. grow up.

[ummmm]

We're suppose to be sensitive...

[dollypins]

Ok, of course I know it's wrong and that I'm wrong for wanting someone I shouldn't. It's an awful feeling, wish I didn't feel like this.
ummm, I just didn't fancy a tirade of abuse :(

[redcrx]

well i think your post was very sensitive, ummmm :)

come on, anyone else think this guys a bit of a creep?

[tigerlelly]

How would you feel if your mother was hitting on your ex-boyfriend? Just a thought....

[ummmm]

I'm not giving you abuse....I'm just telling you how I would react in his wifes position.

[carmalee]

if you are old enough to have a relationship and old enough to contemplate another with a married man who happens to be ex-boyfriends father....trust me I was being sensitive.

[dollypins]

Sorry, I didn't say you were giving me abuse ummmm.
Very true, if I was his wife I would go mad but he's the one texting me constantly at the moment.
Yep, if my mum was hitting on my bf I would think it was vile.
It's just very hard resisting his charms . . .

[ummmm]

Block his number....

[redcrx]

Change you number. or ask your provider to block his calls and texts.
there is no reason for him to be in touch with you