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Having an affair
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I know I'm going to get a lot of hate for this but...
I'm in a relationship that is happy but dull. I've met someone recently that I would love to see more of. I suppose my ideal situation would be to maintain my current relationship because breaking up with him would break his heart (and because we both get something good out of the relationship). He was single for a long time before we met and thinks I am his ideal woman.
But.... I've never been one for long-term monogamy and the idea of meeting up with the person I've met for some no-strings fun is very appealing.
Has anyone else done something similar and if so, did it go as you planned or was it a total f*cking nightmare in practice?
I'm in a relationship that is happy but dull. I've met someone recently that I would love to see more of. I suppose my ideal situation would be to maintain my current relationship because breaking up with him would break his heart (and because we both get something good out of the relationship). He was single for a long time before we met and thinks I am his ideal woman.
But.... I've never been one for long-term monogamy and the idea of meeting up with the person I've met for some no-strings fun is very appealing.
Has anyone else done something similar and if so, did it go as you planned or was it a total f*cking nightmare in practice?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Mic you may think it is all a wind-up, but from what I've learnt from three years on AB you all think it's a wind-up if someone asks something a bit dirty but genuine, without the back-up of several years' worth of questions. If it suits you to think that, fine. I'm astonished that you think affairs are so unusual or likely to be the subject of wind-ups. Believe it or not, I've valued the responses I've received, whatever their viewpoint. Yes, I will probably still do what I want to do, but I will do so as a much more informed person and I won't make any decisions lightly. Thank you all.
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Katie Jessica Rabbit - someone has already pointed that out. I have to be honest and say that argument doesn't go a long way with me, I probably wouldn't mind. I've had open relationships in the past and been okay with them. I guess as others have said, the multiple partners is not so much of a problem as the deceit. Sherrard - the reason I have not gone on a 'rant' is because it is not a wind-up, I regularly read and post on here and value the responses, I was not looking for a load of back-up, I could have gone to some 'affairs 4 U' type website if I wanted that, I'm sure.
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Katie - yeah, it pretty much has been asked and answered already but thanks for playing.
Cazzz - Whatever you all think of me (and I would also pass judgement if I were on the outside looking in), I think it's amusing that there is also a desire to know the juicy details of just how wrong it can go.... I will post an update whatever the outcome as long as there is something to post about. Just hope I remember to use new ID instead of old one...
Cazzz - Whatever you all think of me (and I would also pass judgement if I were on the outside looking in), I think it's amusing that there is also a desire to know the juicy details of just how wrong it can go.... I will post an update whatever the outcome as long as there is something to post about. Just hope I remember to use new ID instead of old one...