Am I getting the wrong idea?

[lovefoolb4u]

Okay, there is this guy in my uni class and I'm starting to get feelings for him. I find him quite attractive and I like being in his company, and look forward to being in his company and always make an extra effort in my appearance. Also, in classes we tend to look at each other quite a lot (which I'm hopefully not imagining out of wishful thinking!). It's not staring or anything - I'd be too embarrassed to stare at him incase he caught me lol! Although it could just be coincidence that we catch eachother's eyes quite a lot.

But yeah, one of my main problems is that when we're together, we don't really talk that much. In a group we all have a laugh together, but on our own we don't really converse. It's not like it's awkward though. And when we do converse it's quite flirtacious. I don't know whether he likes me or not, and I don't have anyone that I could ask to find out whether or not he likes me.

How can I work out whether or not I'm getting mixed signals? Just carry on spending time with him when I can? We see eachother every single day for ages at a time because of classes.

[lovefoolb4u]

And I don't know how to go about letting him know I like him. I've never been in a relationship before so it's all new to me. I'm tempted just to let him make the first move but don't know how to show my interest

[cazzz1975]

sounds promising, maybe you need to find a common interest in order to get past any awkwardness? do you know anything about him, his likes or dislikes? maybe you could ask for his help for something?

it will give you and him a chance to talk without anxiety and shyness ruining things

[Eve]

Why not organise a class night out and see if a more social situations helps things along.

Chances are that if he does like people others will have noticed and might say something.

[onlyme26]

well id take the silence between you as a good sign, maybe both slightly embarrassed when your alone so sounds like he is interested,

try and pluck up the courage to start a conversation about going out, maybe mention your going out at the weekend with your friends and ask him if he goes out much etc etc

[lovefoolb4u]

Just found out he's being going out with a girl for a few days now! lol

I don't mind. Things are still the same between us so maybe I was just taking things the wrong way. Going to stop thinking about it and just see what happens. Not that I promote cheating in anyway and wouldn't dream of going with it if he did make a move while he's going out with her.

Dunno what is going on in his mind - men are a mystery :P

[Sasha13]

I was about to say - guys don't give mixed signals. Girls just think they do.

If he hadn't talked to you, he wasn't that bothered about you.

I hope you find someone you really like soon!!!