Is it my partners baby?

[CarlyP]

i got back together wit my long term partner about 7 weeks ago after being apart for 4 months and have found out i'm pregnant and i want to settle down with him. the trouble is while we were split up i went out with an ex. i had unprotected sex with my ex right up to a few days before my period and then split up with him. i had my period and then about a week later started sleeping with my partner and i have now missed my next period and had a positive pregnancy test. is there any chance i could be pregnant by my ex? it will be ovious when the child is born as my ex and my partner are of different race. but i cant wait till it is born. i need to know now so i can decide what to do.

[sara3]

if you've not had sex with your ex since your last period then it's not his baby.

let's hope he didn't leave any other reminders.

[China Doll]

Actually my mother still had periods for a bit when she was pregnant with me so I'm not sure that's a fail safe truth Sara. Does your partner know you had a relationship with someone else? I'm just thinking that if he doesthen he'd probably already be aware that there's a change the baby might not be his?

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[sara3]

oh dear, Jez seems to be advertising that site all over the shop!

[bednobs]

There is no positive way of telling before the birth really

[onlyme26]

hiya, chances are it is not your Ex's
was your period a normal one? i know some people have light periods while pregnant? i should imagine it is your current partners tho

xx

[sofia041008]

hi carly
i had normal periods for the first 2 months of my pregnancy an didn't realise this untill i went for my first scan and was told the date of conception, so there is a possibility the baby is your ex's especialy as you had sex just b4 ur period as this is when you would be ovulating.im really sorry to hear about your problem, just wen you begin to be happy with your partner again, have you discussed this with ur partner?i hope everything works out for you :)