My Dad...

[CAJ1]

Some of you may have seen my previous posts on here about how I was fostered because my dad didn't want me and my mum was too scared to stand up for me. He has just added me as a friend on facebook after not talking for nearly 10 years...what do I do? Do I try to make amends with him to have a normal family or ignore him so I don't get hurt again? It would be nice to see my mum and see how she is. I'm very confused as to what to do...please help!

[sara3]

good for you. I really hope it goes well for you x

[CAJ1]

Thanks zzxxee and sara, I will pop back and let you know how it all goes x

[zzxxee]

yes please do !!! xx

[joko]

im amazed he did a friend add - rather than just sending you a message through FB.

if you are not sure, maybe add him late at night and then you have chance to explore his page, see what kind of man he is now and then delete if you choose.

you could always send him a message saying you dont think you would like to add him just yet and wpuld like time to think.

i think given what him and your mum did to you , they deserve to be wait til youre ready