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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.bridge- i know how you feel my ex brings our son back and doesn't tell me anything i somewhat guess if he's been feed i can usually tell that he hasn't had a wash, if he's whingey he's tried which means he went to bed late and got up early and where he's been god(and his dad)only knows. Anyway he's 5 now so i can ask him and sometimes i get an answer but sometimes he just says "i dont know" but he's happy and can't wait to see him again so i just leave them too it ,like father like son.
Do you have any reason to think that your ex is taking your son anywhere "unsuitable"? If your son is very young and say your ex was taking him to sit in the pub all afternoon then I wouldn't be too chuffed. If however your ex is a decent chap then I'm with Undercovers on this one, would you like your ex wanting to know what you were doing with his son? Why would your ex not tell you anyway??
I'd try and keep it civil and just ask for basic facts such as if he has eaten etc. Say you are not trying to interfere with his buisness but simply need to know for the health of your son.