Hi mrs ladybug,how was your holiday?My eldest has just turned 16,same thing i'm afraid she was traunting,when she did go in i'd get a call telling me she was ill and could she come home,she was always fine,she did go through a phase of stealing briefly but thank god she stopped that pronto,the problem i found was that she started hanging about with a certain group that was known for all of the above,she has now admitted to smoking but i'm waiting for the day she starts work,meets new people and grows up properly!!