Absolutely no sex drive

[Velvetee]

Since hitting my mid thirties, my sex drive has all but diminished and although when in a new relationship, it's quite rampant for a while, the desire soon wanes.

I'm now pregnant, surprisingly so, as in the last year, we haven't exactly been like rabbits. Since becoming pregnant, I have absolutely no interest in sex. My Fiance, hoped that I would turn into a raving Nympho in my second Trimester, as that is what he has read, but there has been no change.

He is a very passionate person and is always up for it, but since I became pregnant, we have had sex 1.5 times and I have no desire to do it again, I can't bear to be touched and find it all very irritating.

Does anyone else feel like I do? Did your sex drive return after having your baby, or did the situation worsen?

[tamborine]

sqad....not ALL men are on your wave-length. U seem to pick-up on frigid women. A man would know early in the relationship whether the woman of his choice was frigid & v.versa.

Thank goodness you have shown your colors to the men on here....many of whom would be appalled at the destruction your diagnosis could bring into their families.

[ummmm]

Sqad....I don't need to. He doesn't really go anywhere without me.

Not that I mind if he did. He just likes being at home and loves the family life.

He was a confirmed bachelor before I started seeing him.

It's the cooking I think...!!!

[sqad617]

tamborine....I will ignore most of your answer and put it down to well intentioned emotion.
Now the second part, of course sex flourishes early on ina relationship, but it does not always last, for many reasons i.e pregnancy and that is the point of velvetee's question.


"Thank goodness you have shown your colors to the men on here....many of whom would be appalled at the destruction your diagnosis could bring into their families."
Bit over the top as you know nothing about me.

What diagnosis are you talking about?

[poltergeist]

Hi Velvetee. My girlfriend is currently pregnant and if she found my advances irritating then I would take no hessitation in finding satisfaction elsewhere. If you love him you could spend 10 minutes in performing some sort of act on him to solve this.

[obNOXious]

OUCH.... wait for it.....

[ummmm]

Explain poltergeist...???

[poltergeist]

lol I will get banned! You cant describe sexual acts on here :)

[ummmm]

Yes you can....and you're green..!!!

[tamborine]

".........
sqad617
Wed 25/02/09
12:58


fluffyteddy is absolutely spot on and having the courage to say what all you frigid wives know.......

"I suggest you let him go see other women or even look at maybe an escort so there is no risk of any romance blossoming. You really do have to be realistic. If a man doesnt get what he needs he will look elsewhere."

Congratulations fluffy, you have my admiration. ..........."

Sqad your compliance above quoted.

[sqad617]

tamborine...luckily with your charm abd wit your partner/husband would NEVER stray, but again he is lucky that you have the calm knowhow to deal with the situation resulting in a satisfactory outcone.

[B00]

I'm really hoping poltergiest is joking here, he's seriously stating a woman should put out even if she doesn't want to, just to please her man?? Jesus, what century are you from?

And sqad, i'd answer your points too- but as you seem to have the lack of reading basic sentances and actually understanding them in your noggin, I'm not even going to bother wasting my time.

[tamborine]

Y is it all about a man's sexual desires......what about the woman? How many women complain its 'wham, bam thanku mam'.......Act over - zzzzzzz for some men!

A man's lust is easily visual but not so a woman. The man who loves her will take the trouble to satisfy her desires.

[sqad617]

Boo

"And sqad, i'd answer your points too- but as you seem to have the lack of reading basic sentances and actually understanding them in your noggin, I'm not even going to bother wasting my time."

LOL LOL

[yinyang]

Sqad, are you just going to ignore my answer because it doesn't fit in with what you want to hear?

Boo, apologies to poltergeist if I'm wrong, but I think that's gravitates latest id.

[tamborine]

Velvetee...yours is a temporary state and will pass soon. Even pregnant women can have sex albeit with care.

[sqad617]

yinyang....can't ignore your answer because it doesn't raise a point........what vpoint do yopu want me to answer ?

[B00]

Ahhh right yingyang- yes, that's make sense, 'nuff said then really eh? LOL

[yinyang]

The point that in a loving long term relationship it is possible to get through an incompatibility in sex drives without resorting to affairs?

[tamborine]

Finally, to men.....when a woman has found 'the perfect lover' she is more likely to remain loyal to him! If you want her for yourself then be the perfect lover.

[sqad617]

yinyang and tamborine...excellent....no problem then.