I have just had the misfortune to find myself pregnat at 50.
I thought I was going my menopause for the last 3 years.
Been taking natural supplements an everything to help with the sweats and all that.
Was even using condoms..
I just didn't think it possible.
go ahea, lellibet, nothing to feel guilty about (though it may be you won't feel great afterward either and maybe you should mentally prepared for this). Best wishes.
Is the worry of an abnormal baby the main thing colouring your decision, because there is a vast array of tests in utero that can be done to determine a lot of problems and if you've just had a scan at 4+ months then a lot of 'deformities' would have shown up then. My ex is now 43 and has just had a miscarriage with her new partner's baby so we were talking about the health screenings at over 40 just the other day.
lellibet was asked a simple question, and it was her decision to reply or not, dont put words into my mouth.............my answer to the question is. im sorry you find yourself in this very difficult position.
I'm not trying to find excuses not to have this child, basically I messed up somewhere along the way and I really needed to let it out. And no i havent' posted anything ever but I do love AB
I don't think you messed up at all, I doubt many ladies who are 50 would assume they would get pregnant- and apologies I too thought you had already had the scan.