you can't choose your family. I've heard that said so often. So you can love somebody because they are a relative/family, but that doesn't mean you have to like them. Do any of you have family that you genuinely don't like?
None I genuinely don't like, but some I tend to avoid if possible, one cousin for instance almost certainly murdered his father but the police couldn't get that final link to prove it, though another cousin an ex police man tells me cases such as this are regularly reviewed as new techniques are developed. Another branch of the family are religious fanatics. R.C's they do 200 mile round trip as they don't believe a mass is real unless it's in Latin and the rest of us are all going to burn in hell.If you meet them as individuals they're OK, but if they catch you at a family get together when they're all together they're worse then the JW's
Forgot to add that my two sisters and our immediate families are very close. I find it hard to imagine a reason that would make us fall out that badly that we didn't talk.
I dislike my daughter in law but...... without her I wouldn't have my two gorgeous grandchildren so I put up with her jibes and tantrums for their sakes.
I love my eldest daughter but don't really like her very much. She is the laziest and dirtiest person I know. I didn't bring her up that way and it really annoys me.
One of my son's ,I hate to say, is the most selfish, foul tempered,ungrateful, manipulative person I think I have ever met. None of his brothers and sisters are like that. I love him but he is simply not a nice person to be around.
Actually, I quite like all my blood relatives, but there is one sister in law that neither myself or Mr LL like (his sister and he certainly doesn't love her either). Haven't been in touch for 20 years and not likely to ever be in touch again.