This all happened yesterday. It was late at night when I heard knocking at the door, I went to check it out, and I tried turning on the outside lights to see who it was but they wouldn't turn on, then a few seconds later there was violent knocking at the door I was frightened until I heard it was my brother yelling at me to open the damn door, my brother had just returned from work with my father. My family has a way to tell us that it's them, het my brother didn't do it. Then a few minutes later he starts talking about how I just stood there and didn't open the door and how lazy I was. Then I told him what I was doing, of course in an angry tone because, how was I supposed to react to that. Then he started calling me a *** and how I should just shut the *** up and say how disrespectful I am to him. I've been doing everything he has demanded since I was seven, never once have I ever disrespected him. But when I don't do something for him he becomes a *** *** and says whatever the *** he wants to me and never apologises later. Yet dispite all of this my parents took his side. I understand that he was tired but he was being overly disrespectful and harsh to me than usual. And I don't like crying in front of them because they'll tell me that I'm being too sensitive and that I'm not a kid anymore so I should stop crying, I had to hold it in as best as I could until I got out of that room and cried silently.
Now I don't even know how to react towards them, especially towards my parents
you can be assertive and confident without falling out with them, you are very young and should be having fun with your friends not being treated in such a way by a bullying older brother...
Is it possible for you to just ignore him? Stare at him blankly when he starts on you and walk away whilst he's ranting. Don't let him see that his has an effect on you. He'll stop then.
I've tried ignoring him. Unfortunately that resulted in a terrible failure. He picked up my phone and tablet and threw them to the ground and started kicking them