I Need To Talk

[Bobbisox1]

I know I’ve been called a narcissist , an attention seeker and so on, but I’m in such pain tonight, believe me

[pastafreak]

No one will think less if you Bobbi for talking on here. Just do whatever helps you.

[tiggerblue10]

OMG, thats awful, so so sorry to hear that Bobbi xx

My sincerest condolences on your loss x

[Redhelen72]

Either way it’s a horrible way to go.

[Bobbisox1]

I don’t know what to do, I’m in a helluva state ,,

[burlyshirley1]

Have you spoken to your daughter ?

[Sqad]

Can't you open up your state of mind to your other half?

[Redhelen72]

Swallow your pride and ask your son what help he needs.
30 years is a long time

[Bobbisox1]

Yes , she’s as shocked as I am , she did see her brother when their Dad died 5 years ago

[Bobbisox1]

I’ve told him I love him and have never stopped loving him RH

[Peter Pedant]

//Narcisist? yes you have certain traits .....//
oh dear he has missed out the med sch gobbledeegook

[Redhelen72]

Then all you can do is be there if needed and grieve for the child she was when you last saw her

[rockyracoon]

On my word. I’m so sorry for your loss, Bobbi.

Obviously, I don’t know the reasons for your estrangement, but if you can muster the courage to reach out to your son then please do so. He must be in incredible pain.

Peace be with you.

[tiggerblue10]

Are you able to go and see your son?

[Bobbisox1]

Thank you , I’m sorry

[rockyracoon]

Do not be sorry. There is no reason for you to be sorry.

You wail away on here if you need to, there’s always someone to listen, just like you listen.

I’m sorry you’re going through this turmoil x

[Patsy33]

Oh Bobbi, a terrible shock for you. Please reach out to your son a talk things over with him. I'm hoping you'll feel better for doing this. x

[Bobbisox1]

We are talking again and that’s a positive

[webbo3]

I don't think you are any of those.

[Bobbisox1]

At the moment I’m numb with shock ,you all know by my history on here ‘ I say too much’ the thing is I feel void of feelings ,Sqad thinks I show narcissistic tendencies, he’s entitled to say that, I’m open to whatever i get thrown at me now

[Karamia]

So sorry to hear you are going through such an upsetting time Bobbi. I can only imagine the pain you are going through xx