Is This Guy Harrasing Me?

[abbeylee90]

I appreciate he being kind giving me lifts and going for lunch but he does my head in grabbing me to do it all the time as I'm leaving where I know him from I got things I need to do myself feel like he obsessed with me

[abbeylee90]

Well I just avoid going out with him atm and one of the volunteers had known him 20 years and he a pig and man's man and then I thought I don't want to be single at 60 with no kids.

[joko]

you sound ridiculous tbh - instead of just saying youre busy etc, you go straight to wanting to accuse him of harassment & come here for back up to accuse him!
is that really easier than just saying youre busy when he asks you?
why go for lunch or except lifts off him if youre then going to get annoyed that he offers?

[Floko]

Joko
Abbey asked only in her first post about harassment. She has now decided that she will avoid going out with him at the moment so she has already made what I consider to be a sensible decision.

[abbeylee90]

Thank you luckily he hasn't offered lifts.

[bobbinwales]

^
you did say in your question "I appreciate he being kind giving me lifts and going for lunch"

[Peter Pedant]

Thank you luckily he hasn't offered lifts.

chrissakes, just say no - - or no thank you
or no I am going the other way or no my mum is picking me up or no I have decided to walk or no I will take the bus tonight or no the tram is just coming ( note to self: the tram has to be visible for that one) or no I am just meeting Froondie down the pub ( note to self: search out Froondie and make a fren of her) or no I need some fresh air or no I am pathologically afraid of cars or no....

[andres]

For goodness sake make your mind up. In July/23 you posted that you were going out with this60years old man to a farm and the pub. He also wanted to take you to a museum. Make your own mind up and stop dithering about!

[Peter Pedant]

it gives us all something to worrit abart
nurnie nurnie