Guys: Would You Rather A Girl Reject You Because You Never Had A Girlfriend, Or If A Girl Rejects You Because You Have A Child By Another Woman?

[PercyPierce]

Hello guys! Happy Thanksgiving!

I just had a talk with this girl and she told me that She would feel sorry for me if I never had sex experience.

I then asked her why would she, and wouldn't she not like my baby mama.

She said she don't like guys that have baby mamas and "messing around" with other women.

Bear in mind this woman has "messed around" with a young man who turned out to have a girlfriend.

Now, I am aware there is a Stigma towards men that if they never had a girlfriend, they're losers. 

Would you guys feel better if you told a girl that was interested in you about your past experiences with your ex, and she said "no thanks" and walked away?

I apologize for my Colloquial English! Can you give me a better term for "baby mama" which uses less syllables, I know some people hate that term.

[Canary42]

Answerbank hits a new low.

[douglas9401]

After a chilly drive to the frozen north I return with an alternative commonly used around here:

A hing-oot.

Fell free to Google. 😁

[scorpiojo]

Wish I hadn't, Douglas 😂 

[pastafreak]

Oi! Arky...mind what you say about Devonians...though I'm not native born I'm loyal!  😅😄

[wolf63]

I always thought a hing-oot, was a place, like a gang hut.

[Barmaid]

Does it matter either way?  If you are going to get into a relationship with someone it is best to be honest from the outset.  You cannot change those facts so it is really irrelevant as to what is preferred by others.

[pastafreak]

And don't lie! You'll be found out. 

[Atheist]

If a woman doesn't fancy you, it's possibly because she doesn't fancy you because of your looks, or your lack of intelligent convesation, or your breath....

You can't find a recipe for being attractive. If I was a woman I wouldn't even bother responding to your post, because you seem to be clueless about human nature and emotions.

[Toorak]

'I always thought a hing-oot, was a place, like a gang hut'

you must have led a sheltered life Wolfie (though I think it can mean that too 😉)

[wolf63]

Toorak - maybe Perth is too posh for girls like that😂

[royfromaus]

Did anyone order the mug?