What Do I Do Abour This Guy?

[abbeylee90]

Last week I went on a date with a guy I met on the Internet he very confident and has a big personality but what I don't like is beard and eyebrow piercing he wants to meet up this week before he goes away but I'm not sure what should I do?

[abbeylee90]

Ren why is it dodgy?

[CrapatCryptics2]

While you may not like the beard and piercing is a 1st date to early to try to dictate his appearance. You went on the date knowing he had these things so what was it that made you want to do that before you got to know him. If you get into a relationship just politely tell him that they arent your favourite additions.

[abbeylee90]

Well he looked better in photo and eyebrow piercing wasn't visible 

[Redhelen72]

Have you ever seen the film Shallow Hal?

[newmodarmy]

Gulliver who's CG?

[abbeylee90]

He txt I haven't replied yet 

[barry1010]

Be brave, be kind.  Tell him you can't afford to go on a night out at the moment but you'd love to meet up for a coffee and a chat. 

[abbeylee90]

I can't anyway work next day 

[barry1010]

You can go for a coffee, surely

[newmodarmy]

Why's that abbey? Is it not one of your trial days? Are you still going to be doing the fork lift truck course soon?

[naomi24]

Why is working the next day stopping you from meeting for a coffee and a chat?

[newmodarmy]

Oh, I thought you meant you can't work next day. I realise you meant to can't go for a coffee because of work the next day.

It's not easy to read your mixed up sentences sometimes abbey.

An hour is all it takes. You could be home by 8pm

[abbeylee90]

He said meet 7 when there no coffee shoos open 

[naomi24]

Where does he want to go?

[Redhelen72]

all these coffee shops are open at 7pm according to google

https://www.google.com/search?q=coffee+shops+in+cardiff+open+after+7pm&;rlz=1C1GCFP_enGB1097GB1099&oq=coffee+shops+in+cardiff+open+after+7pm&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIHCAEQIRigAdIBCTExMTkwajBqMagCALACAA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

[douglas9401]

There may be a local curfew on hot drink dispensing that we know nothing about.

No McDonalds either.

[retrocop]

Good Grief. Wetherspoons sells coffee all day long.

[scorpiojo]

You knew he had a beard and a piercing, so why agree to meet him?

[douglas9401]

I think we may be getting let down gently as a pierced and bearded big personality seems like an odd match for our correspondent, scorpiojo.

Looking forward to the alleged whys and wherefores in days to come.

[barry1010]

Pubs sell coffee.