Do I Message Him Or Let Him Message Me?

abbeylee90 | 13:40 Wed 17th Apr 2024 | Family & Relationships

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I'm meant to be going with guy I went on a date with on Saturday tonight do I message him if I don't hear from him or let him message me?

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abbeylee90

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Scorpio as much as I can.

scorpiojo

Good

abbeylee90

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He speaks to me with very vague words

Neveracrossword

Abbey, which 'he' are you talking about now? And what are 'vague words'?

bednobs

you speak to us with very vague words. it's irritating, isnt it?

scorpiojo

😂

abbeylee90

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The one I liked takes a day to reply and using little sentence.

Hazlinny

Sounds as though you might be well suited, Abbey 😊

abbeylee90

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Well it seems like if he don't make the effort.

newmodarmy

"Well it seems like if he don't make the effort."

Is that what you meant to type abbey, as it doesn't make sense.

abbeylee90

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Basically and not asking to meet up

newmodarmy

OK...but what you said doesn't make sense...it's garbled.

abbeylee90

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Basically he doesn't make much effort for me to speak or meet up so is it normal to wonder why he even bothering

Neveracrossword

Abbey, maybe you should give up on POF - none of the guys you've met/been in contact with have matched your expectations? I know you didn't expect to meet The One immediately, but you're maybe being unrealistic expecting relationships/decent relationships to form within a week or two of meeting someone.

scorpiojo

He's not interested, Abbey.

abbeylee90

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That why I'm wondering if I should block him.

scorpiojo

Why bother blocking him if he's not messaging you? Just let it go.

Neveracrossword

Abbey, you seem very keen to block people, especially those who don't keep in touch! If the guy is not interested, do you think blocking him will make him suddenly think you could be the love of his life? You could just let things fizzle out, or you could send the guys a short, polite message, saying you are moving on now.

douglas9401

Maybe give him some sugah.

abbeylee90

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The bearded guy I don't like him saying damm all the Time.

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