Is This Man Trying To Make Me Feel Bad?

[abbeylee90]

Right so the volunteer I messaged after the fight the bulldog I was walking was that man I been talking about on here. I messaged him after for advice as he had incidents with dogs before. I just briefly met up with him today he asked if I wanted to go to this lads weekend to waverly they on about and I said no he then I'm going to stop asking you places now as you always say no and latest I been out with him is 6pm and I stayed out till 4.30am on new years eve with my friends I don't understand why he would be expected to stay out with me that late.

[newmodarmy]

Okay so maybe you won't hear again until tomorrow. I'm sure you'll update us as us clearly playing on your mind. Don't let it spoil your birthday.

[abbeylee90]

Didn't hear from him yesterday 

[abbeylee90]

Also said lastest I've stayed out with him is 6pm and stayed out with friends on NYE till 5am also about when I say I don't want to go to far out.

[scorpiojo]

For the billionth time, you've had months and months to say you're not interested. Do you like the attention?

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, are you going on about the old guy? I think people here might asume you've been talking about one of the POF people! 

PS What does it matter how long you have 'stayed out' with the old guy if you don't intend going anywhere with him ever again?

[Captain2]

Rambling......... again.

[abbeylee90]

Yes the old guy just felt weird when he said it

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, 'the old guy felt weird'?  Did you mean it felt weird to you when he said it? If so, so what? I think you might be the only person on the planet who wants to analyse the old guy's words and deeds! Your plan to have nothing to do with him seems to have stalled, just as your dating adventures have stalled...

[abbeylee90]

Yes he made me feel weird. I honestly how things would change if I got someone.

[naomi24]

abbey, how would getting someone have any effect on your relationship with the old bloke?  You're supposed to have kicked him into touch ages ago.  Stop Interacting with him and he'll have no effect on your life whatsoever.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, for a long, long time you have been saying you'll have nothing to do with the old guy when you 'get someone'. Why? What does one thing have to do with the other?  As the man made you feel uncomfortable, quite a few times, why are you still having anything to do with him? 

[Captain2]

^^^ nice pressies, paid for meals..................

[Clementino]

...the frog'll do till the prince comes along ?

[Neveracrossword]

I know some people think that any male attention is better than none- but if Abbey thought like that last year, I don't know why all the advice hasn't made her see more clearly....

[MargoTester]

How would you feel Abbey if someone strung you along until they found something better?

[scorpiojo]

He didn't make her feel uncomfortable. Abbey later explained that she  felt that she wouldn't get a boyfriend while spending time with this man.

Perhaps Abbey could phrase things in a better way in future.

[Clementino]

I give up. Over to you all

[scorpiojo]

..spending time with this man, and that was what made her uncomfortable.

[abbeylee90]

Marge tester I'm not striking along until someone comes along as its not a date with him.

What I'm saying if I had a boyfriend would he really like me spending time with him and saying I never stay out with him later well they're my girly mates and I was on a date who I stayed out until 1am with.

[naomi24]

Abbey, but you wouldn't be going anywhere with the older man. You don't want to go out with him so the question wouldn't arise.