I'v only been with my boyfriend a couple months and we have fallen in love, but there is one issue hanging over us, when we very first got together back in the summer, I went out drinking with my best mate and her (male) cousin who was visiting, me and the cousin decided to go for a late night drunken swim in the sea. It was totally innocent, nothing happened, i didn't think anything of it at the time. My boyfriend obviously found out and went mad (despite the fact that we'd only been a couple for 3 days and I invited him out that night and he refused). Ever since then he has been accuasing me of cheating on him. He is so obsessed with me and this other guy, he's adament that something happened. I can see his point of view, it does look a bit suss, I admit that, but i can honestly put my hand on my heart and say that nothing happened. All we do is argue over it and i don't think can cope anymore. I love him so much, I have tried to break it off and he begs me not too and promises he won't accuse me again, but then he does, and I stupidly put up with it. We had another massive row about it last night, going on til 5am, now I don't know where I stand anymore and I'm in peices.
Can someone offer me some advise please on how to prove to him that I really do love him and would never cheat on him. I've even agreed to doing a lie detector test if that what it takes.
We both had clothes on, I was wearing a tankini (sp?) and a pair of shorts. My best mate decided not to come, it was just the 2 of us. He was wearing shorts. (oh and bear in mind that i live right on the beach, hence why we went for a swim). Iv even just looked into a lie detector test but its cost £550 and I cant afford that.
Thanks
dit you tell your boyfriend or did your mate's cousin?
If you, you were being up front, boyfriend is insecure, if male cousin, does he have an "agenda" ?