holidaying on his own

[suzie1]

my husband of 6 years has been going on holiday to corfu greece, every year for two weeks alone(thats what he says) he never takes me and the kids, coz he says he needs 'time alone' and never goes out normally and treats himself to a break once a year instead. He also claims that the kids are too small to go too far and he doesnt even take us inland. kids are 4 and 2. im confused as he is always at home, if not at work, he drives a taxi and works friday and saturday nights, so i cant really think that he would have someone else as when would he see her. I love him dearly, but i cannot understand why he wont take us away and what the real reason behind this is......what is corfu in greece like.....he stays at the kerkyra golf hotel in alykes......what do you people think about this, also he ahs asked me to take a loan in my name for 30grand coz he wants to invest in shares and gov bonds, i agreed, coz i dont want to not be supportive to him........

[B00]

well it will if he still wants that loan sqad ;-)

[NoMercy]

Suzie, actions speak louder than words. Tell him he has to book and pay for the family holiday, before he can do the same with his own holiday !!

[Sqad]

BOO...true.

[cherrychapstick]

thanks for just ignoring my comment i never judged you , but from the posts i have seen of yours i could have you in one post say your daughter is 5 that was in august then the other night say she is 4 your explanation for that doesn't ring true with me and at what time did your children go to your mums the day you were drunk? i was going to give you the benefit of the doubt ,one thing about one of the posts you have is why the h3ll would you want another child with a man who clearly doesn't give a sh1t !!!!! can't remember exactly was this before or after your friend got pregnant and a few months later her hubby wanted her out of the marital home by the way if they were married it doesn't matter whether its his home or not it was the marital home and she didn't have to leave is the loft conversion for when you have another child or so your hubby can live on his own downstairs for 52 weeks of the year for his own space and you and the kids can live in the loft !!! sorry if i sound as if i am getting on at you but the other 2 pr@ts as you say were only asking you a question there was no need to say what you did if you had answered politely they would probably have listened!!!

hi yogi,boo

[karenmac60]

I'm glad you seem to be sorting things out, and good luck with the doctor - just remember it's your choice who you see and if your regular GP doesn't tke you seriously find one that will. I hope you feel better x

[cherrychapstick]

meant to say and squad

Cherry x

[karenmac60]

Cherry, I have suffered from depression and I remember having a lot of wild ideas about things I wanted to do with my house and my career, and they changed from minute to minute. If I'd had Answerbank then I'd probably have been on hundreds of times a day asking all sorts of weird and conflicting questions, partly because it's impossible to make a desicion on your own with depression. Suzie is obviously having a hard time just now and I don't think people doubting her sincerity and accusing her of being a troll are very helpful. I'm not having a go at anyone here, I know it tends to be the way things go on here because of some idiots who do stir things up, but I do think Suzie is genuine here and I think people should focus on her problem rather than what questions she has asked in the past. As for her daugter's age - I tend to round it up with my own daughter when talking to strangers as it gives a more accurate impression of her age - when she was 12 3/4 I said she was 13 and so on, it doesn't mean I'm making things up.

[cherrychapstick]

yeah but you wouldn't round it down she was actually 5 when she said she was 4 but thats beside the point i was giving her the benefit of the doubt ,yes i have had depression a few times the 1st i never took my tabs the second i took my 1st tabs all at once luckily for my children my ex was in the house and had came down at the right time ,at the time the tablets were all in my mouth so if she is genuine i do sympathize but no wonder she is depressed if i had to write my life story on here from beginning to end believe my i would get called a troll as even to me it is unbelievable but i wouldn't sit and tell someone to fluff off because they are asking questions

[yogi-bear]

Hi Cherry x

Hey Karen,

"suzie" posted in her original thread notes "kids are 4 and 2"....thats 7/01/10.....when sara quzzed her on this ..........

sara3

(Thu 21:01 07/Jan/10) your daughter was 5 in this post.. http://www.theanswerb...d/Question829195.html

she replied...

suzie1

(Thu 21:02 07/Jan/10)

she was 4 the last time he went away

sara again.....

sara3
(Thu 21:11 07/Jan/10) I'm still confused about your child's age!

then No Mercy......

NoMercy
(Thu 21:17 07/Jan/10) Me too, Sara. If she was 5 then, how come she is only 4 now?

strange bit...."suzie gives us this and goes on to give us "her" age how long married and "oh's" age too.....!!!!!

suzie1

(Thu 21:37 07/Jan/10)

sara and those of you that are confused about my daughters age, my daughter was 4 years old the last time he went away, which was july 09 and she turned five in december 31st 09.

suzie1
(Thu 21:37 07/Jan/10)

im 29 and have been married 6 years
suzie1

(Thu 21:38 07/Jan/10)

hes 38

If he last went away in July 09.......to which "suzie's" explanation to her slip up on saying her daughter was 4 , why did she put she's 4 now ( 7/01/10 )??????????

Oh and "suzie"..not a hole..a cave..and spoken like a real "lady"??, eh mate? LOL

to continue........

[yogi-bear]

I believe you to be male more than likely, poss female......we had some sad people/person a while ago who made up stories looking for sympathy from good folk here........used to post on B&S/ Family for effect....i believe you to poss be one of 'em..sorry!..but that is my opinion and seems to have cast a doubt on other minds too......all they have to do is look at the postings you've made....how you answer questions? ..."what is corfu, greece like?"...For Funks Sake ..and maybe they will see too, hopefully and you stop playing them for the fool.

Ciao, baby

[zzxxee]

i agree yogi !!!!!! xx

[yogi-bear]

Cherry,

I hope you're well my lovely and enjoying you're weekend..........you too, Karen.

Have a good one

love yogi xx

( Karen, i hope you were'nt referring to me and panic as idiots?.....perish the thought....tw@ts maybe....lol )

[karenmac60]

I can see where you are coming from, but I personally would rather give the benefit of the doubt (and perhaps be left looking like a fool), by helping out someone who may be an imposter, than to be nasty to a genuine poster who is in need of support. I can empathise with everything Suzie is saying and I don't think she is being decietful. If it turns out I'm wrong and I end up with egg on my face then tough for me. But I've been in this type of situation, and I know how hurtful even the most innocent seeming comment from someone else can be. It takes very little to make a bad situation a whole lot worse.

[karenmac60]

Yogi, I was referring to the trolls as idiots. They are the ones who cause people to be suspicious of everyone. I would never dream of calling you an idiot or a tw@t -yet anyway ;) Have a good weekend x

[zzxxee]

lets all have a hug and be friends (((((hug)))))))

[yogi-bear]

You too karen, and thanks for your answer, lovely x

Hey zzxxee.....always have time for a hug with you, sweetie......(((((((((((zzxxee))))))))))

Have a great weekend and stay warm and safe if effected by the snow........i'm out again tonight gigging and expecting up what could be15-20cm's tonight into Sunday here in the Sussex area......:0)

lots of love to you and all on this thread that come on xxxxx's for the lovely ladies and Hi5's to the guys

yogi

[zzxxee]

good luck with the gig yogi do they still call them gigs? i must ask my daughter
apparently if something is sick its really good ahhhh young folk weird !!!!!

[cherrychapstick]

yeah having a not bad weekend so far but bit depressed where's my hugz :( hope your weekend is going well too

i know what you mean karen that why i was giving her the benefit of the doubt till she started telling people to fluff off

Hope you are having a good weekend!

Suzie if you are infact real (which i do hope you are) your next post should be yeehaa we are going on a family holiday and my hubby isn't going away alone anymore or i have left the Snag because i have now realized he can't care about us why should he have time to himself and i can't!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[suzie1]

cherry, yogi panic and the rest of you doubting me.....i dont really see the point in explaining things to you, yes i was rude to you and told some of you to f*ck off, i did mean it and i was upset, that this is the only place i can be true and honest and this is the place you all doubt me and take the Fosters out of my situation. thanks to karen, i am feeling a bit more optimistic about things, as i have not very many ffriends, and the only close friend i have, has her own problems as you all know, its been mentioned in the long list of my posts that yogi kindly put on here for us, i work for a living and i have been considering a loft conversion and also a drive, and i will get that done in due course. my eldest is 5 and youngest is 2 or shall i say she was 4 and 11 months when i said she was five, i couldnt do with the months so i rounded it up to the nearest age, my little girl is 2 and a half and three in july..if you have analysed anything else i have posted, the bugger off and think what you like, ab is here for posting anything you want to ask and for advice, and for those who havent many mates and look into ab for a chat....i am very sad that you people could think like that and i hope you never have to deal with these kind of issues.

[suzie1]

cherry, its not good taking tablets etc, i did all that and then i cut myself so deep that i lost alot of blood and was hospitalised for several weeks, in order to get to the bottom of my deppression....it was a call for help, i dont know what i was thinking and why i did it,i guess i was unhappy, lonely and abused both physicaly and mentally. i really have no one to talk to thats why i come on here.thanks for your opinions and advice...