sent with no shoes

[mollykins]

We were on skype to my brother last night and he said that often when he goes to pick his three year old daughter up from his ex-partners house, she is sending her out with less and less stuff.

Before, she was fully clothed (although they often looked like pyjamas!), with a coat and shoes but no overnight stuff ie definate pyjamas or toilettries! Which we thought was bad enough. But now my brother is saying she is often sent outside to him, without a coat or shoes on!

He isn't keeping her stuff, infact it's the otherway round, a few times (although he's stopped) he's had to put her in clean clothes the next day plus send her back with the dirty ones from yesterday else her mum would flip, saying he was stealing. the clean clothes of which, he never gets back.

What can he do.

[Authentic]

Why is molly wasting time? Why do you find it necessary to attack her? She has as much right to use this site as anyone!

Read the Ed's post on etiquette!

[Authentic]

...or a care home section!

[mollykins]

I think he said he tried to ask her but she shut the door in his face.

[mollykins]

He's always going ot the courts about the situation, I think they're starting to see his ex for what she is.

[Dris]

Maybe best not to get too involved Molly -theres always two sides plus its too complicated for you to become embroiled in.

[Dris]

I would have thought adults would have been the best people to seek advice from.Molly isnt harming anyone and there is always the opportunity to ignore her threads if you dont have anything constructive to add.
As an addendum Molly also posts on other peoples threads and tries her hardest to enter into the spirit of AB which is often overlooked.
Im sorry i've gone off topic but so did you joko as you dint offer any advice to her.
Post in Suggs and not on her thread if you think a 'teenbank' is necessary.

[B00]

I'm seriously not impressed.

Ysterday I got told off by the ed for not sticking ot the topic in a particular post, and posting my opinions rather than answering the question, yet here we have blatant bullying- yes, its bullying, of someone on a daily basis by the same set of folk, and bugger all is said or done.

[Bbbananas]

£1k to £1.2 k a month!!! Jeez - things have changed since I got any paltry 'maintenance'.
I got about £60 a month for 2 children, and I had to fight my tight selfish ex all the way for that.

[Charity]

Bullying!
Why is nothing done to stop it?

[Dris]

Well ive reported the thread to the Ed yesterday because of the blatant bullying and off topic posts.I suggest others do the same.
I felt sick reading it -she only posted on the first page and she was slated in absentia.Poor girl gets slated when she's not even on a thread.Beyond the joke now and its not Molly who is the joke !!!!
Sad example for adults to set.

[Bbbananas]

If she is as young as she says she is, and is a 'real' schoolgirl - as many suspect she may not be, then yes, she has come in for an extraordinarily amount of stick.

I have teased her over the months about her just-get-in-there threads, but I would not condone outright bullying or insults, that's just not acceptable for anyone, never mind a young girl who does try and contribute, however she chooses to do it.

I wouldn't actually say she is being bullied as such, but she does get a lot of uncalled for 'insults' I must admit.

[Dris]

salla -most of the posts were taking a swipe at her -thats bullying and DG finished it off for me.

[ummmm]

I believe she is who she says she is. I don't think it's bullying either....hopefully she'll learn from it. In the real world, if she asked for advise and she dismissed everything that being said to her she's in for a shock.

[Bbbananas]

What amuses me about her, and is most admirable for a girl that age, is that she doesn't actually seem to let it bother her! She usually ignores it completely and doesn't respond - which must be pretty hard for her to do at times. When she does respond, she is never nasty back.

So, whoever, whatever she is - Molly, I admire you for your non-reactions to any insults and questions you do get x

[Charity]

If I was 'Mollykins' I would feel that I was being bullied. I think she does really well to ignore it. Why should the victim have to change their behaviour? This is the real world, it's real bullying.