Would It Be A Good Thing If That Man Don't Come Back To Dogs Home?

[abbeylee90]

I thought I'd make a new thread so this man been on about in previous thread so I know from the dog's home had a strop other day as manager said he had to wear thier hi vi's vest with dogs home branded on when walking dogs. The manager didn't like my yellow jacket that he use to wear for work, and told him he had to wear one of theirs. So he told her that it was the lowest form of management "do as I say, not do as I do", as her and her staff never wear one, and that they should be setting an example to us walkers. She said I haven't got enough time to talk to you about this now, I said, "well you chose now to start it", and carried on, so it went from there. The staff wear thier uniform branded with dogs home. He hasn't been back since and not heard from him much either only when ge gave me a bag of treats to give to the dogs.

[Floko]

Redhelen.  That is why I am being more careful/gentle  (wearing my "hat" ) with her and Ihope others will act the same 

[andres]

Have you had many boyfriends in the past Abbey?

[abbeylee90]

I have said I got a lift like I wad told before to say can't remember what thread and only few months we been friends.

Andre's yes 

[Redhelen72]

abbey - I have seen you write perfectly clear and concise posts - what are you trying to achieve with your bitty english - I am not entirely sure!

[Canary42]

She's rivalling James Joyce I think Red.  Her posts do read rather like "stream of conciousness" at times (and I mean that in the nicest way).

[Redhelen72]

hmmmmm canary!

[abbeylee90]

Do I tell him straight going out with and asking me to zoo and that I should be doing that with someone my own age

[newmodarmy]

Age isn't the issue. Tell him no, he's just a work colleague

[abbeylee90]

Ok feels I should be doing things like that with someone I'm going on dates with 

[Redhelen72]

I go out to the zoo, cinema, theatre etc with male friends without my husband its called having friends

[scorpiojo]

Abbey, you've been asking us about this man since July (if not earlier)

https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Question1844603.html

You've been quite happy to have lifts, meals, and go to a farm and a pub with him in the past, so what's bothering you about it now?

 

[abbeylee90]

My mum said be careful with him he might think I'm keen which I'm not he a man man that why he single clearly and the times I going out with feel like I should be doing it with someone round my own who's there is a potential futre with 

[Redhelen72]

what do you mean he's a mans man?

 

[abbeylee90]

One of the volunteers told me 

[Redhelen72]

what do you mean that he is a 'mans man'?

[Hazlinny]

Abbey/A lot of married men could be classed as a man's man and it's purely because they maybe like going to football, rugby, etc. with their mates, out to a pubn- why don't you put "the man" to the back of your mind, start a new thread and tell us about what you are doing over Christmas.

[Floko]

Abbey, this has been mentioned before :

"a man's man" can mean one of two things (depending on who told you and whether they were being serious or "nudge nudge, wink,wink") 

So, either as Hazlinny has said  OR gay.

We cannot judge for sure, as we haven't met him. You said you asked him if he was gay and he laughed but did not reply.

Either way, just say to him "we are just in the "friend zone" and ask if he agrees.

[Redhelen72]

If he is gay he won't be interested sexually in you Abbey!

[Floko]

I know that redhelen and so does Abbey, but at the moment she is still not cdrtain which of the two he is 

[Redhelen72]

floko - perhaps if you let her answer the questions then we may get to the bottom of it!