Would It Be A Good Thing If That Man Don't Come Back To Dogs Home?

[abbeylee90]

I thought I'd make a new thread so this man been on about in previous thread so I know from the dog's home had a strop other day as manager said he had to wear thier hi vi's vest with dogs home branded on when walking dogs. The manager didn't like my yellow jacket that he use to wear for work, and told him he had to wear one of theirs. So he told her that it was the lowest form of management "do as I say, not do as I do", as her and her staff never wear one, and that they should be setting an example to us walkers. She said I haven't got enough time to talk to you about this now, I said, "well you chose now to start it", and carried on, so it went from there. The staff wear thier uniform branded with dogs home. He hasn't been back since and not heard from him much either only when ge gave me a bag of treats to give to the dogs.

[Countrylover]

 ^  agreed Helen.  Sorry Floko.  As I said before wrapping Abbey up in cotton wool will not do Abbey any favours.  Even if she has some problems she has to learn  to think for herself or she won't cope in life.  

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, you seem to let yourself get fixated on certain things and then get into a real tangle. I think this is partly down to your life being... basically not up to much right now! You've had terrible problems with jobs for quite a while now, you've got very little money and very few prospects - yet you'd rather ignore those and ask these questions that go round and round in circles, getting nowhere. 

[Floko]

OK ladies : I'll be waiting.........

Didn't think I was mollycoddling....it wasn't meant as such

 

 

 

[abbeylee90]

Better luck in the new year hopefully where I can meet new people and stuff him

[Redhelen72]

You are so rude - he has given you lifts, gifts and goodness knows what else - you certainly have been using him!

[scorpiojo]

//stuff him//?

 

You've been quite happy to accept the lifts and meals and outings and the watch!

[newmodarmy]

Whether you keep him as a 'friend' or 'stuff him' should not depend on whether you meet new people.  It could sound like you're using him until something better comes along

[Floko]

.... No answer came the stern reply

[abbeylee90]

I've said this before my mum has said be careful as he might think I'm keen

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, many times in life we get what we deserve - so who knows what (or who) 2024 will bring for you...

[newmodarmy]

So have you discussed this with your mum in as much detail as you've discussed it here?

[Redhelen72]

Did you tell your mum about the watch, the meals, the lifts and the trips?

[abbeylee90]

No if I did she will probably say same thing or don't accept no more like you've said he also gave a lady something vegan as she is one 

[barry1010]

I've been telling you for months that your behaviour is telling him you are keen - that is why he takes your lunch, invites you out, buys you lunch and gives you gifts.

You are giving out the wrong signals and it is cruel to keep encouraging him. 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, it might be suiting you now to say, 'my mum warned me...', but months and months before that, people on AB said similar things and you ignored them all. It's hard not to think that you heed advice, change your stance only because you've now got the possibility of a real boyfriend (though one date might not necessarily lead to there being a new man in your life). 

[abbeylee90]

Well it stops now I've said no twice this week

[Redhelen72]

hmmm telling your mum half truths - what a surprise

[abbeylee90]

Because people were telling he think of me as a daughter 

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, we know you let yourself be swayed by someone saying he thought of you as a daughter.  Move on now, without the nastiness  - 'stuff him' was totally charmless.

[scorpiojo]

Your mum would probably ask why you've accepted all these things from him for months.