I'm Stressed From My Pregnancy

[Sweetha]

I'm married for 4 years.Me and my mother in law does not go together from the time of my marriage.I had PCOS problem.She told the nearby neighbors that I am unfit to bear a child. I got really ashamed and cried alot. I decided to leave my Husband and walked out of the house. But he was not interested to leave me.My mother and mother in law fought very badly and they were not good in terms.So I didn't speak to my mother since it will make my Husband's respect downfall.No one is there to support me from my side. Me and my Husband lived separately.after two years I got pregnant.. Since no one is there for me to take care, my husband decided to bring his mother to look after me.. I asked him not to bring his mother, she will ruin my entire pregnancy. He said no she will not do like that Trust me.He made his mom to come.Whenever my Husband goes to office, she has never gave me food on time in pregnancy.. I told her mom I'm really feeling very hungry please give me food. She never responded to me and was watching tv. I was starving like hell.. After one hour only she gave me food. This happened many times whenever my Husband was in office. So I told him that your mom is not giving me food properly on time.. He started arguing with me that his mother is like God. Don't speak bad about her.I really felt sad. One day 8th month of my pregnancy, my mother in law didn't give me food for the whole day and I fainted and fell down when my husband was not there with me, later I got up and called my Husband that this happened to me, he came rushing to home and took me to the hospital.. His mom got afraid. Then my blood sugar level was very low ranging 47.The doctor warned my Husband and his Mother if this happens again then there is no guarantee in my pregnancy.
I told him that his mother didn't give me food that's why I fainted, but still he didn't believe me and he said that she might be not well or sleeping. Again I was stressed out.Finally it was my due. Doctor decided for a c section and I delivered my baby successfully.. But my baby was very underweight.
I felt very sad.Inside my hospital room after the operation I was lying in the bed searching to see my baby in the crib. Baby was not there. Mother in law was holding my baby. I said mom please show my baby I want to see. She didn't even respond to me and holding my child. My husband was not in the room. I felt really bad. Once my Husband came again I asked her to show my baby then she showed and took back. I told my husband she's doing like this, again he didn't believe me.I got discharged from the hospital the second day and went home. The next day I as shocked to see my breast size decreased and I'm discussing with my Husband dye to this whether milk supply will reduce? All of a sudden his mom entered our room and started blasting at me and body shaming me stating that "Do you think you are so beautiful?Look at your breasts how huge and embarrassing it is? Look at your big and ugly belly with stretch marks.
I really felt ashamed and started crying very badly. My Husband started shouting at his mom why are you behaving in like this??? She got angry. After sometime she came to my room and said that my son is so handsome and charming I don't know what made him to choose you ugly woman. He likes only slim and beautiful girls. I replied if so, then let me take my child and live separately.She said even now amazing girls will come and stand in queue to beg my son to choose them. Shall I prove it?These words triggered me and I was in the stitch pain also and finally I started shouting and abusing her in foul language to leave our house. This was the first time ever I behaved very badly to her.My Husband got shocked of my behavior and got angry with me and started to support his mom. With great stitch pain I decided to take my newborn and leave the house. My Husband stopped me and made his mom to leave our house. Still he is speaking to her. Her plan is to separate my marriage life What to do

[Tilly2]

Why was she feeding you? Were you not able to go to the kitchen and prepare some food?

[LadyCG]

I think your mother-in-law has some jealousy issues and probably needs some therapy. She probably can't stand not being No 1 in your husband's life any more.

[bednobs]

this type of thing is probably way outside of people here's experiences so it's going to be difficult to advise.
Most women in this country work throughout their pregnancy and don't rely on someone in the same house to bring them food - they'd just go and get it themselves. Most women in this country dont have to put up with the family culture that you have to