What Do I Do If I Get This Job?

[abbeylee90]

I got an interview tomorrow in a new shop opening which is meant to be on 9th. I need to give 2 weeks notice to selco so what do I say?

[newmodarmy]

Talk to your parents now. Right now.

[abbeylee90]

Can you reply to my thread about my friend.

[newmodarmy]

I don't know what thread you mean. Is this an avoidance tactic...avoiding the big issue about your mental health and inability to cope with day to day living? You need help from your parents as a first step. Be honest. Tell them you are struggling and getting tied in knots with worry and indecision....and you have no proper job or money and have been deceiving them but now want to be open and get their help

[abbeylee90]

https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Family/Question1873716.html

[abbeylee90]

I just been advised shop work is bound be pressuring and stressful and get me down my friend said.

[newmodarmy]

No. That's another thread that goes round in circles every time you crave attention.

So you would prefer to be on 10hours at selco and won't whinge about things there again?

[naomi24]

Abbey, it's clear you don't want to take the job so don't take it.  If it's worrying you - and there's no doubt it is worrying you - make that decision right now.  Done.

[abbeylee90]

I said can you reply to the thread about my friend that why I attached the link.

Well by I been told I might moan baileys if it high pressured if it anything like b&m so best find one I won't moan about and not put to much stress on me.

[Hazlinny]

// find one I won't moan about //  well that will be a first, Abbey 😃

[abbeylee90]

I wouldn't if it wasn't for the hours other than that I like selco.

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, I really do think you need to seek help of some kind. You have found every job you've done in the last two years to be stressful, full of problems of one kind or another. It takes some people a while to find their niche, job-wise, but you have really struggled most of the time. Yes, I know you have liked some jobs/places - such as the care home - but your employers had a different take on how you were doing job-wise. 

[abbeylee90]

Well if I'm not taking this I can apply for help now 

[scorpiojo]

You can apply for help at any time. Many, many people over the last couple of years  have suggested you see your GP.

[gylly]

If you are still on Universal Credit, do you realise that you could be sanctioned (i.e. your money could be stopped for turning down a job offer without a good reason.)

[scorpiojo]

Are you claiming UC, Abbey?

[abbeylee90]

No

[1ozzy]

🥱 here we go again😏

 

[newmodarmy]

Abbey....why are you telling me to reply to a different thread 21:17, 22;03. Why me? I'm not interested in that topic.

[DDIL]

Clickbait!

[naomi24]

^It isn't.

 

Have you decided, abbey?