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Call me an old git, but I do like to see correct punctuation and spelling. Do people get taught this in schools anymore? While I'm on the rant, do people use their indicators anymore, or are we all expected to mind-read? Answers on a postage stamp, please ...
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Still, if you are a foreigner or a dyslexic or a person with a received minor brain damage, what would you have us do, other than our best?
I worked professionally with brain damaged patients for many years, and I feel compelled to speak on their behalf here, knowing that many of them are shamed from doing it themselves, or indeed from entering a site like this one in the first place.
As for me, I chose my alias to signal my imperfection and thus be 'forgiven', as it were. Is it really necessary that everybody else who's aware of messing it up goes and does the same: DaStrokeSurvivor. DaDyslexicThroughNoFaultOfMyOwn.
Or is it more important that we understand what the other person is trying to say.
Ok, THECORBYLOON, I see your point. You are right, we do all have to make assumptions, that's the way our brains are wired. Throughout the centuries it has probably been extremely beneficial for the survival of our species to be able to quickly categorize in terms of poisonous/non-poisonous, dangerous/non-dangerous, etcetera, and I guess we just can't help performing that kind of quick judgement, whether we want to or not. God knows I'm guilty of it myself. By my two replies I really just meant to stimulate other AB:ers as well as myself not to stop at our gut reaction but rather to make it an incitement for further thinking about what may lie behind that which meets the eye. I have in the past been an aggressive person with so many chips on my shoulder, and this is pretty much the way I've dealt with it: Not denying myself the purge of a gut reaction, but certainly not stopping at it either. You know, not to make it the grand finale but rather the starting point of something else. And in thinking about this, I still don't know why people would opt to make linguistical mistakes if they had the chance not to? Unless of course it's to signal some kind of cultural status, in which case it isn't a mistake but a choice. (In Sweden we have something called suburbian Swedish, which many 'old gits' (said jokingly, abilicious) consider to be faulty, but really it isn't, it's more of a language within the language - and using it is an informed choice amongst the greater part of those who do.)
Having said that, I do enjoy a funny linguistical mistake myself... I'd quote you all one, but my 'darlings' are all Swedish, so... Take care, all.