My marriage is still going 54 years later. I don't think a change in the marriage service will make commitment any stronger. When we went to see the vicar about the banns he spoke to us about sharing our lives together - for the rest of our lives through the good and bad times. But that was 54 and a bit years ago, and I have to admit it hasnt been plain sailing at times. Now people's perception of marriage has changed. It seems very easy to move on to someone else, to divorce, or just live with someone else these days. The lack of a belief that binds both partners in marriage seems to have gone. It is complex there are no definite rules about this, times have changed so much, I can't say that our vicar's words rang in my ears all those years but that talk resolved our togetherness then.