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Yes - have been round 5 times since moved in to talk about the noise and have explained that we find the swearing the most intolerable action. He claimed he would have a word with her but it got worse. I went round on the worst night to ask if she would turn the music down so I could put my little boy to sleep and she was actually very surly, agreed and then didn't bother. He claims that he would rather have her in the house as this is safer but I don't see how it is safe to leave a teenage girl with over 10 teenage boys, a bottle of cheap vodka and weed! Surely that is asking for trouble. Thanks for replies. I appreciate what you mean when you say set a good example. I know you can't sheild them from everything but that's what a good parent feels like doing.