Her mum and sister might say that she was a blooming nightmare as a child, we've all known one or two of those, i've got one in my family on my ex wifes side, wife sister was a horrible child and turned into an even worse adult, in her 70s now and has had no contact in 30 odd years with any of her 2 sisters, recently deceased mother in her 90s and still alive dad, also in his 90s. Her name was not mentioned at her mums funeral, of which she didn't turn up for, its like she never existed. No doubt she has a different story to tell but her sisters and all their children, grandchildren etc all get on very well and are very close, she has missed out on so much, its a shame, she only lives minutes away, has been married for 50 years, one son who has no contact with any of the family. I might add that her husband was/is a horrible man, thought he was better than the rest of the family, used to look down on me 40 odd years ago because I had long hair, which in the 1970s was quite normal, there was only a couple of years between us but like chalk and cheese,he was unfriendly and quite unapproachable, she seems to have turned into him!