Sp, you must have heard the same stuff as my husband about the crisp lover.
I was molested as a child, I didn't tell anyone for weeks as I thought I'd get told off by my mum, my mum was not an ogre and to this day I have no idea why I thought I'd be in trouble, in the end I told a neighbour who immediately told my mum. The police came, questions were asked and an arrest was made, fortunately the dirty bastard admitted it, got a fine and had to move away, he snuffed it soon after, good job. A week after the arrest my mum walked into the local newsagents where another neighbour was telling anyone that would listen that it was all the little lolita's (yes, a 7 year old me) fault for getting John (the dirty bastard) in trouble. People attitude towards victims of sexual assault beggars belief sometimes, don't know whether I should feel pity for them or just glad that they've never had to suffer an ordeal at the hands of a predator. Remember, not everyone has the strength to be open all of the time.