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Is It Now Time That The Wearing Of The Burka Is Compulsory For All Women?
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I agree, making the Burka compulsory would stop all these misogynistic gestures irrelevant so that one wouldn't be able to see or investigate the feminine attractivene ss. Good idea.
11:14 Thu 06th Sep 2018
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I tend to agree with Woof, that if your society is functioning properly there ought to be no need for gender specific legislation. The thing with 'minor' unwanted sexual attention, some of it is in the victims perception, generally it's not the act in itself, wolf whistling, cat calling, compliments etc, but rather who does it. If it's someone you don't fancy or like you take exception and it's abusive, if it's someone you fancy you don't consider it to be harassment, so I'm largely against anything which curtails what can be normal human interaction but would like to see things toughened up against genuine hate and control. There is a difference and I think most women know that.
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/// generally it's not the act in itself, wolf whistling, cat calling, compliments etc, but rather who does it. If it's someone you don't fancy or like you take exception and it's abusive, if it's someone you fancy you don't consider it to be harassment, ///
And how would the person doing the wolf-whistling, know if you fancied him or not?
/// generally it's not the act in itself, wolf whistling, cat calling, compliments etc, but rather who does it. If it's someone you don't fancy or like you take exception and it's abusive, if it's someone you fancy you don't consider it to be harassment, ///
And how would the person doing the wolf-whistling, know if you fancied him or not?
Basically, it's not punishment that men need, in order to stop them behaving in an offensive and / or intimidating fashion, it's education.
If we bring up boys to respect girls, they will grow into men who respect women.
Prevention beats punishment every day - why not make a man respectful in the first place, rather than simply punishing him because he doesn't understand what respect actually means because no-one taught it to him when he was growing up.
If we bring up boys to respect girls, they will grow into men who respect women.
Prevention beats punishment every day - why not make a man respectful in the first place, rather than simply punishing him because he doesn't understand what respect actually means because no-one taught it to him when he was growing up.
AOG - // And how would the person doing the wolf-whistling, know if you fancied him or not? //
A little self-analysis does the trick I think.
I am sixty-three, and I do have film star looks, but unfortunately, that film star is Woody Allen.
Is a gorgeous twenty-year-old stranger likely to appreciate me whistling at her as I drive past? Unlikely, so I don't do it.
But sadly as my last post pointed out, this is a matter of respect, not deciding if you are God's gift or not.
A little self-analysis does the trick I think.
I am sixty-three, and I do have film star looks, but unfortunately, that film star is Woody Allen.
Is a gorgeous twenty-year-old stranger likely to appreciate me whistling at her as I drive past? Unlikely, so I don't do it.
But sadly as my last post pointed out, this is a matter of respect, not deciding if you are God's gift or not.
YMB - // AH, it's the same for women. They also need to learn to respect men, this is not a one way thing. //
You live in the same society as I do - honestly, which way do you think the sexual harassment dynamic flows - towards women or towards men?
We are a male-dominated society - it's up to men to start making the changes.
You live in the same society as I do - honestly, which way do you think the sexual harassment dynamic flows - towards women or towards men?
We are a male-dominated society - it's up to men to start making the changes.
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