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Barsel - // Well yes, age is a number, but I wouldn't say it was only a number.With age comes other problems as I am finding out. Apart from my body deteriorating physically, my brain is also deteriorating mentally, and I know I may get into trouble for saying this, I do believe that as a woman, I am less capable of understanding (shall we say) mechanical things, than some men. For instance, there are probably lots of things my car can do that I don't know about. I'm not proud to say this, but I don't even know how to open the bonnet! So, if I'm still driving when Mobility tell me I can't have another petrol car, it will be electric, I want to know if I will be able to cope with it. As I said earlier, if something is going to be wireless charging, I will be stumped. //
I sympathise entirely.
I think it's fine to generalise and say that women understand mecahnics less than men, because as a generalisation, it's absoutely true.
I also know that, like you, in time there are going to be developments that will be for young people, and as an old person, I will neither cope or be catered for.
The beggest example happening now is the notion that everyone has access to the internet and can communicate on line, which is clearly so for young people, less so for older ones.
I am lucky to embrace the internet, but I know that there are inovations round the corner that i will neither understand or be able to utlise.
I'm not complaining, as i said, that is how the world progresses, and it has to be based around the young and growing, not the old and deteriorating.
I did have a glimpse into the future when my grandaughter, who is twenty-three now, showed me her first I-Phone a few years ago.
As I attempted to grapple with some of the facilities it offered, failing entirely she took the phone off me and exasperaedly advised me - "Grandad, youre so last century....!!"
I couldn't really argue, so I retired to a private space for a little weep ...
Just kidding, I laughed out loud, because she is right!!