These threads throw up all the usual approaches, criticisms, praise, and everything in between, which pretty much mirrors the feelings of the population at large.
My view has always been that Harry't time in the army was the only time in his life when he felt, and was treated, like a normal human being, and the end if his service meant that such an experience would never come again, and he would be back to being a Royal, which he honestly did not want to be.
When he met Meghan, as someone who has lived a different life, outside the abnormal straitjacket of royalty, she showed him that life could be different, and I do believe they took that choice together.
Giving up his military roles is a price Harry will understand he has to pay for his freedom, and he will pay it with a heavy heart, but no doubt feel that the price is actually worth it.
No-one chooses to be royal, but they have a choice whether or not it is a life they want to continue to lead - and Harry chooses not to, and that is his choice, and no-one else's.
I hope he is happy, and I also hope that some posters on here recognise what the term 'invasion' in the expression 'invasion of privacy' actually means.