Sqad - // A-H
////It speaks to his complete absence of judgement, to say nothing of self-awareness, to think even for a moment that his behaviour is acceptable.////
I disagree, you seem to have defined for me a normal human trait which we all have in varying degrees. //
I know that long experience shows that you and I are probably going to disagree on this, which is fine, but i think it worth restating my view, and the reasons behind it.
First of all, I entirely agree that this is a normal human trait, no argument there.
Where we part company is my view that it is not the trait that is the issue, it's the time and place where this trait was indulged, and what i believe to be the unacceptable lack of self-awareness and judgement that caused its indulgence.
We as a species all share a wide variety of normal human traits, from the amusing, to the fundamental, the majority of the last which we choose not to share with each other.
At one end of the scale, we sneeze, belch, break wind, sing loudly off key, pick our noses, and so on, which are best done out of sight, but not major transgressions if someone else observes.
At the other end of the scale, we urinate, defecate, and masturbate, and those we do in private, with no-one else watching, because these actions are taboo in our society.
Under those same societal rules, we completely accept that men masturbate, and pornography is a sufficiently successful stimulant, that a multi-billion dollar industry exists to satisfy (no pun intended), the world-wide demand for it.
But we also expect that indulgence to be exercised in private - if we didn't there would be porn loops on monitors at every table in every Costa on the planet.
We don't, because accessing pornography in public is still a cultural taboo.
MP's are elected to form the laws of the country, and it is a reasonable expectation that they understand and observe the cultural attitudes of the society they represent.
For an MP not only to appear not to grasp a simple and fundamental cultural taboo, but to indulge in it in the House, demonstrates a serious inability to understand concepts of expected behaviour, and observation of the basic notions of the suitability of time and place for certain behaviours.
The fact that this individual appears unable to grasp those simple and necessary basics of adult behavior required to work in the seat of government, means that he us utterly unfit to hold the office of MP, and needs to resign immediately.
The further fact that he seriously imagined he could carry on being an MP while he was investigated, simply underlines his disassociation with the seriousness of his misjudgement, and deeply flawed personality that makes him unfit for office.
Yes men masturbate, and yes men look at pornography, but it is not acceptable for them to do it in their place of work with other people present, especially if their place of work is the House Of Commons.
Men also urinate, defecate, etc etc., but what would be the reaction to any Honourable Member who did any of those things in the chamber?
You attempt to pass of this behaviour as simply something 'men do' which it is, but time and place are the aspects you choose to ignore.
I do not.