if we are honest then many of us owe a great deal to our upbringing or our family. What gets me is people pretending to be "self-made" and successful purely off their own bat... whenever you look closer there's always something that's pure luck: getting a good education, having a wealthy or connected family member or benefactor, getting the opportunity to work in a lucrative field, even a teacher or mentor who took the time to give you a leg up... there is really is no shame in any of these things but it is quite annoying when people pretend they don't exist and extend no empathy toward people who are not as lucky.